Is something going on between my fiancé and his lady friend? Or am I paranoid?

Redvine13

My soon to be husband talks about a friend of his that I've known of, ever sense we got together. She's the type that likes to get attention from different guys ( ego thing). She's been in and out of his life for 7 years. She came back into his life beginning of winter last year. Long story short, I've seen her flirt with him in front of me. He doesn't do anything or say anything to stop her from doing so.

I've tried speaking with her alone several times, trying to gage if there is something going on. Everytime I do, he interrupts. They go on lunch outings together. He's lied about who he's going out to eat with. For most people, he'll tell me who he was texting or just on the phone with. Not her. I've straight up told him I don't find it appropriate for him to be alone with her. I stated for the fact that he finds her attractive. He didn't deny it. He simply laughed.

There have been times that she and her sister have made it a point to make him do things for them. Like help move things, take them on car trips, etc. He acts guilty sometimes. There was a time that she tried to convince him for her to live with him. While I was living there. I put my foot down and stated that was not going to happen. He tried to convince me and got upset at me. There's more. Just trying to give a general picture. Any thoughts on his behavior? Something is off, not sure what though.

Is something going on between my fiancé and his lady friend? Or am I paranoid?
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