Is this guy really nice, a gentlemen or he’s interested?

[Anonymous]

We were hanging out and on a date. He was really nice but also really nice to others. He called me beautiful several times. I was a little mean because he was not gentle when cuddling. He also kept flirting a lot. Do you think he will ask me out?

[spartan55]

Okay please clarify a few things: describe how you were 'a little mean' and he was flirting a lot with whom?

[Asker]

I don't know I kept pushin him away, flirting a lot with me

[spartan55]

Were you flirting with him too?

[Asker]

Yeah I flirted a bit

[spartan55]

Just from the outside it doesn't sound like you were returning his vibe very well. Why would you push him away physically instead of politely asking him to move or whatever? That would have put me off.

[Asker]

Yeah I kind of returned the flirting less because I told him to stop multiple times because I was being crushed

[spartan55]

Do you even want another date with this guy?

[Asker]

Yeah ofcourse I’ve never met somebody that nice before

[spartan55]

You didn't do a really job of letting him know that.

[Anonymous]

I see no reason why he wouldn't ask you out again.

[Asker]

Like would he ask me to be his girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, but not right away.

[Asker]

I’m scared if I give him sex he will not ask me to be his girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

That very well could happen, so its a good idea to make the guy a few months before you sleep with him.

[Asker]

Lol yeah we slept in the same bed but no sex so I’ll try to hold it off

[Opinion Owner]

Good idea.

[Pohjolan]

Why? Are you bad in bed or something?

[Asker]

@Pohjolan cuz usually when hook up on first date they don’t ask you to be girlfriend for some reason

[spartan55]

@asker
Funny how that works eh? They don't ask you to be their girlfriend because you gave it up too quick.

[Asker]

@spartan55 yeah lol happened to me few times in the past

[Pohjolan]

Some guys are just in for short term mating but traditionally the third date is the sex date.