I like him so much that it hurts, I want to give up but at the same time I don't?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy that I'm on the same class with. At first I was saying that I like him as a joke. But now it isn't. And I like him so much that I can't get him out of my mind. I'm always excited to go to class every day and I'm sad when he doesn't show up. But then, things changed. He asks about me to my friend, "Is _____ coming with us today?", his face changes when I'm feeling unwell. He keeps sending out mixed signals that I'm getting so confused. I'm getting ideas that I don't want. I'm too scared to assume. It hurts to like him.

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Should i give up or keep on assuming?

[Wolfynight]

I know where you are coming from, i liked a guy soooo fricken much and i gave it my all, but he would give me mixed signals too, he'd say he cared and love me, then the next day treat me like shit. But a majority of he time i felt on top of the world, It depends on the guy you are with and how he makes you feel

[TheSpaceGnome]

Tell him you like him, then ask him if he likes you back.

Worst that can happen is he says no.

If he does say no, your feelings for him will disappear, and you will feel better.

If he says yes, you can try dating, and you will feel better if it works out, and if it doesn't work out, you will feel better because now you know whether or not it would.

[Guy13]

Not following. How old are you and what exactly is your question

[Asker]

sorry, i updated the question. should i give up or keep on assuming?

[Guy13]

If he hasn’t asked you out or broken the 3 feet rule (sitting beside one another leg touching, 1foot from face-you’ll know if he both flosses and brushes, leaned up against standing in line) then he’s too much drama. Indecisive and lukewarm feelings is too much Drama 🎭 to deal with‼️

[FilmGuy93]

That’s not a mixed signal. He likes you

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[Asker]

should i give up or keep on assuming he feels the same

[In_Trance]

Why don't you talk to him and find out for sure?

[Asker]

I also asked ny friend, I'll ask him at the right time and be straightforward this time. I hope I can

[Anonymous]

Why dont you be straightforward with him?

[Asker]

because our semester just ended and we're all stressed up but that's actually just an excuse. I don't have enough confidence to be straightforward with him.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell your friends that you trust you like him and ask if they can ask him which girl in the class he has crush on

[Asker]

thank u for the suggestion, i will try that

[ThebestIndian]

Really, Talk to him