Guys do you over explain when you lie? especially sexually or about your partners body?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend does this when I’m kind of believing him but have doubts. Like I asked can you tell if someone’s had kids when you sleep with them he said surprisingly not then I said really? He said it’s like if you had to close your eyes and guys in you you’d struggle to tell who’s who (I told him this because to me when someone’s past say 4-5 inches it does not feel longer to me only thing I notice is width)

But do guys do this, the long weird unnecessary explaining when they are lying?

Yes they over explain when lying

No he’s trying to get me to understand

[NathanDavis]

not everyone lies the same way...

some people will over explain yes, but others will keep it very simple and say nothing much or nothing at all, others keep repeating themselves, and then there's those who will question you or blame you instead

a better way to go out about it is... try to remember how one person in specific will lie to you, or will tell you the truth... and then check for consistency, according to previous patterns, CONFIRMED patterns though, for both... how they lie, or how they tell you the truth

[Jdjfjcjj]

Didn't seem too long of a response but I get your point. To answer your question, yes. he could be bullshitting. Instead people when lying can tend to ramble with unnecessary words to give them time to think.

Could also be he doesn't really have enough experience to decipher or, he may just be super horny that he isn't thinking about that in first place.

[summiter]

Some guys may do it.. sorry. I always prefer honest talk. How is your sex life with your boyfriend? Have you asked him why he does that kinda talk?

[spartan55]

I don't get how he over explained the answer. And why tf would he lie about something like that anyway?
(he's correct by the way)

[Redstang88]

No, we over explain when we’re asked question with no right answer