He liked me but I always call or text first to make plans make it make sense?

[Anonymous]

I understand that you may be shy and might not want too at first out of fear of me saying but its going into the second month now and you can't ask me out first. I took the liberty of the first five dates. I thought he didn't wanna be there at first but he denied and said no and he's really nice and compliments me but dude take the lead to give a date suggestion, lets do something u like like we have a lot in common since we're in the same major but who knows maybe you like knitting and your creative, i could try it out or your into collecting stuff. I am willing to try new stuff, hell i went hiking with a guy and i have bronchitis as well as poor endurance, sure it was horrible along the way and it annoyed me that he had so much freaking energy but the view was nice at the. Should i ask him why he just lets me decide on what we do or where we go, he doesn't seem like a super active person or gym going so i don't think its anything strenous if he was worried about me dying mid activity. He could even suggest we get ice-cream or stare gazing or cliche and we watch a movie and get dinner. Is he really into me?

[lossanto21]

If you want to not come on so strongly about it, on your next date tell him that it is his turn and the next date is his to plan. See what he does and how he reacts.

[forzaissimo]

Yes he is hrs just shy. Tell him You want him to take charge a bit. How do you feel about him?

[Asker]

i like him a lot but it feels like i like him more than he likes me sometimes. He's great and listens and gives more than the i understand or i hear you but really good detailed advice about stuff. I think how comfortable i am around him also helps, i don't get butterflies or anything but like that zen feeling like your alone on the beach during sunset, its just you and blish. but he never goes int what he likes which i didn't mind at first since he enjoyed the dates we went on so far but i would really like to know what he wants to do and if i give him the same feeling by any chance.

[forzaissimo]

hmm I can tell he's def into you. I think he's shy. What if you said you was t to wear this sexy new dress for him (get a new one if you need to) but you’ve got no where to wear it! So he has to plan a romantic date for the 2 of you so you can wear the dress for him

[forzaissimo]

Want to*

[Asker]

That's a perfect idea thank you.

[forzaissimo]

Welcome

[Anonymous]

Try dropping some hints about how much you love it when a guy text's you first.