If a guy is honest with you does that mean he cares about you or he’s just being blunt?

[Anonymous]

I went off on him a lot and he said that he didn’t understand my random outburst.. I would say cruel things to him … I even told him that I hope something happened to him on the job.. but his response was always so different. He said “ I won’t hold that against you” “you don’t know my life “ he said “I can believe whatever I conjure up” and he said that I was angry lonely and insecure..

Instead of calling me a bitch or going off on me back… he hit me with the truth about myself… did I curse him out for that? Yes. Did he care that I cursed him out? No. ….

I would rather a man call me a bitch 20 times than to hit me with truth lmao it hurt

I don't know if he was being a jerk or if he cared

[Beatrix7]

well what kind of thing did u say u think would happen to him in his wirk my ex took sezuires he stopped them for years because things he did he all of a sudden whent dizzy one day i gave him som advice to watch out what he's doing i could be his fits mite come back and a few weeks later they did its not a jynx its just smart advice to be careful

[Asker]

True

I don’t mean it

[Beatrix7]

yeah i said it could be his fits coming back i ment to write yeah his fits came back i warned him a few times he didn't take my advice and look what happend he started taking them again your only giving him smart advice about his job your not giving him a jynx a bit of help

[BarryLiverstone]

Being blunt

[Asker]

He doesn’t care…

[BarryLiverstone]

Not in that sense no

[Asker]

I mean he said he didn’t want to sleep with me bc he didn’t want me to catch feelings..

[Asker]

He cared about my feelings

[BarryLiverstone]

Or he wasn’t attracted to you

[Asker]

We were going to be friends with benefits but I didn’t want that

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like neither did he

[Asker]

Because he knew I would catch feelings and I admitted that

[Asker]

He said he cares about me even if I can’t see it. I told him that I have a soft spot for him and he said he has one for me too

He just said he can’t give me what I want and he hopes I’m happy