So I have been dating this guy for about a month, we have great chemistry especially sexually. Anyhow he really doesn't talk about his feelings towards me, yesterday we got into an argument and I told him it was over, but I really did not mean it, I was trying to get a reaction out of him, to be honest. So anyhow he called my bluff and said to me, I really did like you and think the world of you, but if this is what you want.I then said to him I didn't want to end it. Long story short I think he is always feeling me out. He said when we first started dating that he didn't want either of us to get hurt. When I go to end it, then he does etc etc. He flips it on me, is he trying to see how I really feel? and what does he mean when he said "I think the world of you"? I admit that I try to get some kind of reaction out of him to see how he feels, is he doing the same? This might sound weird but he said to me after we had great sex, "do you wanna get married" I said no, but someday. Now why would he ask that? Also he always makes comments about me getting pregnant, he bought a whole box of condoms, but doesn't use them and he knows I'm not on the pill. He said to me "one little mistimed squirt and jr. is on the way" now why would a guy take a chance like that? He hasn't finished inside me but says he wants to, he asked me to get on the pill, which I will, but still why is he willing to take the chance if he's not ready to settle down? He's a real nice guy and I really like him, I think I may even love him, but we both at times try to punch the other one away, but yet that is not what we want, obviously, so anyone out there what are your thoughts on this? I think he loves me to, but does not want me to know, or even know that he cares about me, why? Thanks
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I get the feeling he does not want me to know how he really feels about me, is he trying to protect himself? He always I feel needs to know how I feel first, why?
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