Why do men hurt womens feelings and not care about they did?

[Anonymous]

Makes me believe still half of the men in this country have no feelings.

[MrOracle]

If the men you are going for are pretty consistently ghosting you, that's a clear sign that you are going for guys out of your league. And if you do this, those guys aren't going to take you seriously or make you a priority at all. They might bang you if their other plans don't work out and it's convenient, but if something more interesting comes along, they'll forget about you without a second thought. (Women do exactly the same thing to men, by the way).

Start picking men based on their morals and values and life-goals rather than their looks and status, and you'll have much better results - but of course, I know you won't do THAT, because good guys are BORING and UGLY. You want the hot guys who don't want you and who treat you badly. Well, get used to being ghosted, or used for casual sex, because that's what they are offering.

[HighValue]

The majority of people, men and women only care about themselves.

[SnowedIn]

I'm not sure this is true for all. Men hurt women's feelings. Women hurt men's feelings. Some do and some don't. Some don't know they hurt feelings. And, yes, some don't care. But, also, sometimes what constitutes hurt feelings is different from person to person. So I might say something not thinking/knowing it hurts.

[inhua]

men have had their feelings trampled pm for years, no make that decades, no wait it's for centuries and told to suck it up.

what you experienced isn't right but nothing that hasn't been happening to men for a long time whether it's by the less "empathetic" gender or by the more "empathetic" gender.

[Messianic_Monk]

I don't necessarily think this is a guy problem. I think it's a people problem. People who think very highly of themselves and disregard other's feelings.

I think what's best for you is to maybe go after different men. Maybe lower your standards just a little bit.

[DrBanana]

That’s like me asking why you friend zone that really nice guy and why you girls in your country do that?


It can be many reasons but they are not interested in you it seems or possibly found some one more compatible with them for what they want out of a relationship just like you do as well at times.

[Anonymous]

Hurt women’s feelings how? I mean it’s hard not to when women are sensitive about every topic. Even when you joke w them they don’t know how to kid around. Men can say all sorts of shot. Forget just men, people in general, it’s up to the person to determine if they are going to get their feelings hurt or not.

[boggboss]

This is a trait many people can do justify shit actions or just ignore the feelings of guilt when hurting someone to get what they want women also do this and it just goes to show how selfish people can be

[boggboss]

Even to the point I have had people try to convince me male and female that ghosting is a fine way to end communication with them as the truth would hurt there feelings

[Twalli]

They don't see what they do the same way women did, and some women hurt men's feelings A LOT more, we just don't talk about it. Men have been dumped for showing too much emotion, like crying in front of a girl when their mom died.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's pretty hard not to hurt a chick's feelings.

[Anonymous]

Women made me evil, once I really valued a woman but she cheated on me. Since that day on I learned to not give value to any women, sorry for that I have to save my psychology.

[msc545]

Women don't care what they do to men. Why should we care about your feelings?