So I was trying to get over my ex at work and I didn’t mean to, but I started liking this other guy. And the other guy started inviting me to sit with him in the car for an hour lunch together and we already had like jokes between each other when we work together and all that. So my ex came up to him and asked if he was my boyfriend and then the guy I like said he was going to back off because he didn’t want to deal with my ex and I stuff and he has enough problems with what he’s going through with his daughter. So, the next day the guy told me sorry I didn’t talk to you even though my ex wasn’t there but now your ex is mad at me. And my friend said that when my ex, and I stop talking all his friends, kept trying to get her to not like me. And she told me that I tried one time and they tried for a while and she said I did nothing to her and they did nothing to me so she doesn’t have a problem with them or me. And I told her well it’s not fair that the guy I like won’t talk to me because of what my ex said when all of you, my other friends stayed my friends and didn’t stop talking to me and talks to them. So I don’t understand why the guy I like just stop talking to me but my other friends didn’t. And yesterday the guy I like came up to me at the end of the day and said he didn’t talk to me because I was over there chilling and I told him I was mad at him. And then today we didn’t talk at all. He comes up to me at the end of the day and said something and I said oh you can talk to me since my ex isn’t here and he kind of just looked at me like the heck. OK!
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Lol you sound bat shit crazy. Don’t be mad at the new dude for not talking to you. He has problems too just like you. If anything you should be mad at your ex. Or maybe not if what you’re ex is saying is true. I feel as though you’re unhinged already talking shot to a new dude whom isn’t even your boyfriend. Not that it’s any better if he was your boyfriend. If I was this new dude I would have said fuck you and walked. No man is going to want to deal w an ex. It has nothing to do w being scared either, it’s just involved a lot of energy wasted that technically never had anything to do w him. I certainly wouldn’t want that kind of drama either if some dude came up to me talking shit. Again not scared, just not worth putting up w his bs. You’ve just shown him a little about your personality as well so that’s not a good thing.
Well, first of all the new dude and I were already friends and already getting really close before my ex said anything
I shouldn’t be punished because my ex wanted to say something to him. I shouldn’t have to lose a friend.
No you shouldn’t have to lose a friend but that doesn’t give you the right to talk to your friend hat way. He’s a friend. Be mad at your ex. In your mind you think your friend should have the balls to stick up to your ex? What should your friend have done in your eyes to make this the perfect situation for you?
At first I was mad at my ex, but then I started getting mad at my friend because it’s OK for all the girls to still be my friend but my guy friend just ditches me when my ex gets upset and I don’t think that’s fair! I think that my friend should still talk to me, and we shouldn’t have to sneak around to even talk were adults
Yes but the difference is your ex isn’t coming at your female friends the way he is your male friend. He could be scared of him or he just chooses not to deal w this type of person seeing as how he has too many things going on in his life already. The two of you aren’t even in a relationship so to possibly get into a fight over that, no not going to happen. How long have you two been friends?
So I have been working there for over two months now and pretty much like the second or third week before my ex and I talked we became friends and then we didn’t talk much like we were joke around because we work in different departments but other than that we didn’t really start talking a bunch until the last couple weeks and my ex just went off on me and told me that he never asked him if he was my boyfriend and that the guy I like told him I was talking shit about him and then my ex called me a psycho and blocked me
Well if your ex came to me like that I’d probably walk as well. Not worth putting up w his bs over a girl. Especially if you’ve barely been friends less than a few months, I’d that because sounds as though you two weren’t taking all the time. Like I said though for you to talk to you’re “friend” that way isn’t right. You have to respect his choices.
What’s wrong. That’s a long list…
Basically, the guy I like won’t talk to me because my ex asked if he was my boyfriend and now my ex ex mad at him and I don’t think that’s fair that I should lose my friend
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