My ex reached out a few months ago and moved to my city, we have known each other for four years now and dated for two, we didn’t speak for a few months after our break up until a couple months ago. We hang out and are affectionate with each other. He holds me, holds my hand and is sweet around me. Last week he was sick and I went over to take care of him and make him soup. We cuddled. He started getting touchy and we kissed. He wanted to do more but I didn’t give in. I told him I couldn’t do it with someone I wasn’t in a relationship with. He said that we’ll eventually be there in a few months when he gets settled with work since he has just started out. He said he’s not seeing anyone and it’s just me. We met again last night and the same thing happened, I didn’t give in again. I just don’t know what’s going on. Is it just sexual from his side?
Help me figure this mess out?
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I would say give your self a week away from him and did you brake up with him or did he brake up with you if he broke up with you and he is back and saying those things be careful cause if he left and came back he didn't care enough to stay with you and now he is back cause he thinks he can get some easily with you if you broke up with him cause he left then maybe you can start the relationship back where you left off that's the good part got to take the good with the bad
He broke up with me, we started having a lot of arguments and he couldn’t take it. So he left. He also dated someone for a month after we broke up but it didn’t work out.
Yeah don't get tempted in you guys would have the same arguments like last time I mean if you both want to use one another for sex then that's fine but keep a firm line drawn cause he may just be coming back cause he knows what type of buttons he needs to push to get back with you
I don’t want anything sexual at all. I want to feel secure first. He said that we will get there in a few months once he settles in the city with work and stuff and that he is not seeing anyone and will not see anyone. I don't know
Yeah if he is saying that just back off don't make it easy for him cause he is thinking he can leave and come back and you will always be right there
Makes sense! Thanks you :)
Remember he left you and did you start the arguments or him? And did he do anything to fix them? If the answer is no then back away from him
Lol he’s just trying to fuck you. Guarantee you he was nailing other chicks when you two were separated. So whatever happened on his end as to why he’s not w someone now is why he’s back trying to take a drink from your pond. Maybe he nailed another chick, got what he wanted then split. Or she didn’t give it up. He’s telling you you’ll be together once he’s settled is just him telling you what you want to hear to make you all gooey. Why were there so many arguments?
Of course it is.