Why do most males seem to have problems with me & try to "TEST" me?

[Anonymous]

For the longest time I've never been able to grasp my head around this

Most men much older than me & guys around my age range tend to always want to start some BEEF or throw "shade"

I've never interacted with any of these retards on a personal level & never will

I'm not a stud that has encounters with woman on a daily basis

Im a soso looking guy who has ZERO family/friends besides my step auntie

I don't know why many guys take issues with me

[Fanfare690]

You're a threat. Its unfair to be treated as such! O recieve the same fucking hate

[Fanfare690]

Most of the people you encounter want something you have. The confidence. They are all haters within
there's something you bring out in light they are afraid to shine out themselves

[Asker]

It's odd though because there was a known "ladies man" in the same neighborhood I lived in

He was VERY attractive & "had it all"... I'll leave it there & the same men who had issues with me never gave him problems or tried to kiss his ass

[Fanfare690]

It's called boundaries too.
Also, I agree with the other person you come off unfriendly.

[Asker]

Boundaries? Specifically?

I don't even talk to these guys

I'm literally your typical quiet dude who TRIES to keep a low profile

[Fanfare690]

When you try too hard it shows.
You clearly have no boundaries or even self aware of how you come off

[Asker]

But I'm not "trying" to be anything

I'm literally just living my life

I keep quiet & don't bother anyone but the reverse isn't true

[Fanfare690]

You still come off as unfriendly. It's just so you can be aware.
It doesn't matter whether you're okay with that or not I'm telling you how you come off to the average person

[Asker]

So apparently I'm the "bad guy" now even if I was the one that was messed with first? I only ever turned into an "asshole" until AFTER I got *tested*

[Fanfare690]

You're not necessarily the bad guy.
I'm noticing a lot of people dont know how to fucking communicate these days. And wanna size people up. If you're intimidating to people who are entitled (most people) theybwill try to size you up (competition) but this is why a "hotter" guy gets treated better than you. he's FRIENDLY. he's probably cool af with everybody. And the girls like him.
You are average which is perfectly fine. But you come off unfriendly af and it may rub people the wrong way Or you have a vibe about yourself that many are aware of. People dont like what makes them uncomfortable. Maybe you are too different in terms of looks, vibes, respecting others boundaries (if that) but just practice. You seem maybe socially inept? It's okay buddy. Always room for improvement

[Asker]

Just out of curiosity

I don't go out much at all but when I did a few years ago I've noticed that strictly the woman in their 60's would be the ones to call me either "handsome" or "attractive" but the ones in my age range then
(late teens) would act very arrogant & cold towards me

Even to this day its almost strictly woman in their 60's who are "cool af" with me but the ones in my age range now (early 20's) are very rude & standoffish

[Fanfare690]

Because those women no longer get attention. could be desperate and see you by yourself. They want you they are horny their husbands are lame

[es20490446e]

Generally people do such things when they detect a potential thread.

[Asker]

Threat to what? I'm not a stud nor attracting the opposite sex 24/7

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are meeting very toxic men who like to play games.

[Asker]

I'm not meeting anyone

There literally neighbors, classmates

You mentioned "playing games"?