Should you be punished for other people looking at you?

Why do narcissist get upset when other people look at you. When I was with a narcissist I had to look down while I was in public so other people wouldn’t look at me. Why do they get so upset if they notice that someone looks at you? Even if you don’t know that they are looking, you are still punished because a stranger looked at you. At the end of the night they can recall every person that looked at you and you can’t because you weren’t paying attention. Why does other people looking at you make them upset. I was told that when I’m traveling alone, I am supposed to keep track of how many people look at me and tell him about each one which is confusing, because how am I supposed to do that if I’m keeping my head down. I was told that I’m a whore for not caring about people looking at me or paying attention to count how many people are looking at me.
Should you be punished for other people looking at you?
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