My crush friend asked me if I will miss him and especially his cousin kept asking me if I’m going to miss him as in m crush and asked if I would miss him to. But he kept asking about my crush 😂 I said yeh then I said no because I don't know how feels towards me all my crush does is annoy me and just stare like he can’t move his eyes all the time we kinda used to it but I do wish he Comee to me and talk 🤷♀️ but yeah
Help! Okay why did his friend ask me if I will miss him?
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Sounds like adorable affections.
I can’t pinpoint the specific reason, but I think the heart of the matters here, is that you both have a ‘liking’ for each other, and your cousin likes “the idea of you two together,” or is just excited for both of you.
The question is given (to you) to see if you are fond of him, and you answered honestly, and then held back because without you asking him, you don’t know if he’s fond of you.
The FACT you’re both curious and trying to know or trying to hold back, shows you also both like each other. The cousin helping, shows he believes his cousin likes you, and he is trying to help.
You all be nice to each other, okay? Even if it doesn’t work out, be nice about every aspect of it.
Best to you sis. 💖✨💯
Aww ☺️ thank you I’m in bit of situation now though because he didn’t want me to add him but I did so he accepted it which I thought odd … but then he asked for my number and called on a no caller and we kinda argued nothing serious just him pi** sing me off 😭I got angry and hung up but he didn’t even open my message and so 2 months later I removed him. And he removed me back weeks later so I don’t know how he feels now 😅and I don’t think I will add him because I already did and now i removed him but I just miss him a lot 😭
Ideally, it’s better if you’re both mature and both grow together and both love and push for that, but it seems one of you is not being mature and one of you is probably going to do some growing up while the other matures.
Life gives us some hard lessons sometimes- that’s growing.
Our ability to treat others well and make efforts for things/ being intentional, is a symbol of maturity.
I don’t know if he knows how to be selfless in love. Love can be passionate, but it requires some selflessness, and thoughtfulness. Seems like you’re being thoughtful and I’m not entirely sure he is.
I think it’s safe to say you can pass on this one, and wait for better, or ask if he likes you.
Depending on how old you both are will determine how crucial it is, but regardless of age this is important: being satisfied with oneself long enough to establish a life/ daily routine that will support you, you can be happy in, and enjoy. Then you can share that with others. If you have nothing set up for you and don’t know how to enjoy moments of solitude alone, you and anyone in a situation like that hypothetically, would become desperate and lose parts of themselves in a tragic way.
Better to give parts of ourselves to those we love with time and trust- not losing is and trying to become who we are in our course of life and so on.
Maybe this is confusing or “too deep” for you, but at 20 I think I’m at a cross roads. The middle where I can see how I led up to this and get a pretty decent view of how it will be ahead, and despite my own personal story, I can see the undertones which apply to many people in general. Mostly women also.
Make of this what you will, it I think in simple words, you’d be better off progressing and working on and with yourself for enjoyable things. Just because you won’t be with him doesn’t mean it doesn’t have to be enjoyable, but if yo Heidi to learn some lessons and want to just be with him, you can.
It promises heartache foremost, but there is a sliver of a chance it could work out and you both could grow together.
Best to you sis. 💯💖✨
Hmm yes that’s true he did ask my friend if I actually resigned or not even though his cousin told him I left. But yeah it is quite tricky and will be going to work where I was with him in summer so I guess I’ll see then how they react towards me and his friends. But yeah I’ am focusing on myself doing what im doing but sometimes I do get sudden memories of him and all but yeah he needs to put his ego aside I guess but will never know. Because my friend seems jealous of me and him and idek why she removed me 🙄 but he did tell me she kept asking if he’s mad at me etc and I said that’s wweriddd lol 😂 but imma sort her out when I see her smh But yeah I do have a feeling he does still like me but I’ll get my friend to talk about me to see how he reacts about it lol I guess that’s one way to find out but what shall I tell her to tell him hmm 🤔 something natural and causal about me I don't know 😂 and thanks I wish the very best for you 😚 to hun and also I think sometimes ego is a problem you loose a lot through it and I hope he regrets it lol cuz tbh he fell for me before I even did so should get to him more than me but also same time women are more emotionally attached as so I am lol
These are all fair points. I think you’re a vibrant passionate person, and I think in any circumstance you can get your friend to mention you to him, I don't know if and how she will relate what he says back to you, but it seems like you already know he likes you and don’t need him to say that about you, to your friend.
It will be your choice and it seems you are willing and assertive in this matter.
You’re thinking of all the parts and seem happy with self, so it just seems like it will be an obstacle you’d be willing to face and have good chances of overcoming.
I’m happy with what you DO know and I think with that being shared, you’ll be quite alright in those relationships.
It’s a learning process and sometimes we learn from playing in the game ⚽️ 🥅.
I wish you all the best, truly. You, him, and your friend
AND his cousin lol
😂🤜🤛💖✨💯
Yess and don’t you think he clocked that so called friend is jealous of me and him because he even asked me that “ she keeps asking if I’m mad at u” loool I told my other good mate she was shocked haha I trust her ofc and when I do come back there I will tell him if you want to talk about me don’t go to her go to my other mate because this one is jealous and she got him on snap the beg yh 🙄 anyway idc because he likes me I’m sure he does I hope lol even though I removed him because he don’t reply maybe doesn’t know what to say I don't know 🤷♀️ but will see how they all react when I’m there and I’ll tell him also if u want to say anything say it to me not through that fake bich she’s not my friend like that so no point telling her cuz she will twist it.
Right since he told me about what she said to him I guess I can to 😅kinda felt happy he did lol even though he pissed me off 😂. He said we’re cool but I didn’t know how to message cuz I did anyway so I just removed him but then weeks later he did but I don't know if he wanted to he’s a bit ego and reserved also so I don't know 😂 and yeah thanks hahahab
I wish you also the best ❤️🥳🥳💯💯🤪💅can’t wait to see them soon in the summer haha
Many thanks for the wishes 😍✨💯💖 excited for you
It seems like everyone involved can see and feel the connection that the crush has for you.. It is shame that it could have not moved along to the boy/girlfriend status before.
Yeah we had a bit of an argument but removed because no messages so I don't know shall I add him again? He asked my friend if I actually resigned or not and then my mate brought me up and said “ she’s coming back “ and he said “let’s throw a party when she comes back “ Hahaa 😂 but I don't know if he meant to annoy me but like I don't know he took weeks to remove me but I don't know 🤷♀️
I think he's crushing on you.
Why wouldn’t he add me on snap but then when I added him he did add me back
You should ask him.