Show her you don't care TOO much to win her over? Girls and Guys answer.

[Anonymous]

Does that work when you're dealing with a girl that's wishy washy about what she wants? She doesn't like really serious relationships, clingy guys, and she doesn't like spending all her time with me cause she doesn't like serious relationships at all.

Would acting like you don't care whether you get her or not make her interest level in me go up and make her want me more? I'm thinkin just acting like I don't care too much would work rather than ignoring her. What should I do?

[rayouuunn]

i think that you are right .. girls like this type are like babies..whenever the baby see a toy he will begin crying in order to let his mom buy it to him..well when she buys him the toy he plays with it for 2 days and then he'll throw it or ruin it and starts crying for an another toy ... therefore don't let her think that you are for her .. let her feel the same way you do and treat her the same way she is treating you ! unless if you showed her that you are so liking her and about to get so much in love with her she will leave you to other fake relationship ...

[Asker]

Yeah I agree with you! Thanks

[rayouuunn]

ur welcome anytime:)

[Mascotte]

Treating her in that way might work best.. but is that the kind of relationship you would want

[Asker]

No it's not. But if I want to win her over I think this is what to do in the first stages. Coming on too strong would probably make her run away right? That's why I'm sparingly giving myself to her so after time maybe she'll like me even more if I show her I'm comfortable with myself. Girls don't like clingy guys right?

[Mascotte]

well.. acting like you don't care too much doesn't always work out the way you meant to. She might think you've lost interest, for real, and since she -maybe- pretends herself not caring too much or at all either you might lose her completely. However if you ignore her from now on you'll send out a more clear message, and when she's cares enough and is interested in knowing what's going on all of a sudden you can tell her that's the choice SHE made by telling you what she did.

But can you control the way you feel?

[Asker]

Yeah I understand that if I do it completely she'll think I'm uninterested and she'll move on but I'm just saying, showing her interest and then not so much.

[Anonymous]

At a certain point, she may just think you're no longer interested in here. Once she beleives that, then she will likely move on from you.

[bewildered_123]

yes it works like a charm