Why does he want to see me?

[Anonymous]

I have been on a solo holiday for a few days. To add some entertainment to my life, I downloaded a dating app just to see what's out here...

One guy keeps asking to see me. I have politely declined 3 times, yet he still messages me (at night time) asking if he can take me out on a date.

WHY is he so adamant on seeing me and what does he want? I asked him by the way and he said "I just wanna see you".

Updates

1 y

Guys he just messaged me again asking AGAIN 😭

[RealMarek]

Let’s try to look at what he’s communicating by his actions. He repeatedly requests to see you even though you decline. This means he doesn’t respect your wishes or take you seriously, which makes me suspect he is after sex.

[belle_kai]

And more, something sinister. A good man will respect it

[RealMarek]

@belle_kai good point. It’s a bad sign when a guy won’t take no for an answer.

[SteveSmith1985]

He's... a guy with no concept of proper boundaries and appropriate behavior. He is a guy you want to stay away from. He's a guy who doesn't hear the word 'no'. Block this guy. He's a creep.

[exitseven]

Maybe he sees something special in you. Or he might just be a nutcase.

[Asker]

I feel like he wants sex

[exitseven]

Probably true but let's face it 99% of guys want it.

[Asker]

Oh gosh

[exitseven]

Is this news to you?

[Asker]

Not really

[exitseven]

RE UPDATE: does this guyb have two heads or something. Maybe you give him a chance?

[Asker]

Funny thing is he messaged me again so I responded and he hasn’t responded back 😂 maybe he’s found a new victim

[exitseven]

Maybe he is like the dog that chases cars. Once he cat he's one he does not know what to do with it.

[exitseven]

Catches*

[Asker]

Haha maybe!!! So weird

[AmeerX]

At night time? Probably a weirdo or he lives in a different time zone?

[AmeerX]

Does he live in a different time zone?

[Asker]

I’m on holiday alone and he lives here

[Still-alive]

he's persistent and doesn't take no for an answer... i would stay away. you may want to block him so he really gets the message.

[Marked_Man]

Obviously 99% want SEX. He just is probably fuckboy who doesn't take no for an answer.

[KostasKouvalis]

Some guys think being persistent will pay off. Sometimes it does

[Anonymous]

Get a restraining order he's stalking u he probably wants to harm u its2023 u can't trust nobody especially on dating apps

[Anonymous]

That could lead to something dangerous

[Asker]

Yeah that's why I declined but I don't understand the persistence

[Opinion Owner]

Rapists etc want to control he's trying to control the situation so now imagine if he sees you. What is he capable of? A man should respect it

[Asker]

Oh dear

[Alex8736]

but still can't state a reason?

[Asker]

Yeah I don't know

[Alex8736]

Red flag sweetie

[Alex8736]

scammer from Nigeria

[Tstrbrainer]

Obviously he's attracted

[Tstrbrainer]

Block him?

[Asker]

True