He send me money but I don’t know how to stop the transactions. I feel like he doesn’t respect me as he uses this as some sort of control and uses it against me. I getting sick and tired of it I’m 30 years old and just want to live and progress myself in life.
I have my own flat and live with my boyfriend and have a degree/job. I feel he talks down at me. He seems to recover my brothers time and says He so busy. But so am I
My dad did the same! He was a narcissist and used money to assert that he’s done “so much for me in life” so he could continue to abuse me by masking it as being a provider. It’s called infantilization what he is doing to you to make you feel co dependent on him even though you’ve progressed through life. Ultimately, the only way it stopped was that I had to cut him entirely off, which I isn’t easy (well it was for me lol) but you have to set a boundary or it will never, ever stop. Those types of people never learn and will always demonize you for speaking your mind.