My friend reconciled with her ex that she broke up with second time. Is she getting played?

[Anonymous]

When they reconciled he said” let’s take things day by day”

She’s in her 30’s and wants to get married and have children..

[Anonymous]

It is important for your friend to consider her own needs and expectations in the relationship, and to communicate these clearly with her partner. Taking things day by day can be a positive approach to rebuilding a relationship after a breakup, as it allows both parties to focus on building trust and communication before making long-term commitments. However, if your friend's goal is to get married and have children, it is important for her to have an open and honest conversation with her partner about their future plans and expectations. It is also important for her to prioritize her own emotional well-being and make sure she is in a healthy and respectful relationship.

[Asker]

He said he want to take things slow so I don’t think he want to about expectatons or anything like that

[Asker]

Talk about*

[Opinion Owner]

If her ex wants to take things slow, it's important for her to have a conversation with him about what that means for their relationship and what their expectations are. It's possible that he may just need more time to build trust and establish a stronger foundation for their relationship. However, if they have different goals or expectations for their future together, it's important for them to address these concerns and see if they can come to a mutual understanding. It's important for both partners to communicate openly and honestly about their feelings and expectations in order to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

[Anonymous]

Honest thoughts? Don’t worry about it, it’s not your relationship. Don’t over invest, seek other people’s thoughts. No, you’re doing too much. It’s her choices, you should get busy with your own life and have little involvement in her relationship. That’s how you avoid drama or your opinions backfiring on you when she tells her man what you think.

[Asker]

I can see based in your response that you’re selfish person who doesn’t care about their friends

[Opinion Owner]

Nice try, but you’re very wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

I just know when to step back and mind my own business, you don’t.

[Opinion Owner]

You think your words will make her leave her man? Absolutely not, and you will learn that the hard way.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t to her that she leaves her man but I don’t see this ending well for her.

[Opinion Owner]

9/10 it will not end good, but she has to go through it and won’t leave him until she’s good and ready. That’s why I tell you getting over-invested in her situation rather than focus on yourself will backfire on you and is a waste of time. Giving your logic, get ready to spend much more time trying to advise and console only for her to stay with him. She will also tell him what you say and that will create drama. Been there done that, a woman’s man is also her best friend he knows everything you’ve said and will say.