What does it mean when a guy says this…?

[Anonymous]

We were not dating.. we were talking (somewhat)

I admit that I can be a mess to deal with at times and I let my insecurities get the best of me. He’s been pretty patient with me. I do think he somewhat cares (he said it) but I know he’s not in love with me.

Sometimes he admits that he doesn’t understand me and despite my random outburst he does enjoy talking to me.

he said “sometimes I low key think you want me to be rough with you”

?

[Anonymous]

It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and boundaries. Based on the information provided, it is difficult to determine with certainty what he meant by his statement, but it may suggest that he is picking up on some signals from you that suggest you may be interested in a more rough or intense sexual dynamic.

If you are feeling unsure or uncomfortable about the situation, it may be helpful to have a conversation with him and express your feelings and boundaries clearly. It is important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to only engage in sexual activities that feel safe and comfortable for you.

Remember to communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly and assertively, and to only engage in activities or relationships that feel safe and comfortable for you. If you are feeling uncertain or uncomfortable, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor, who can help you navigate this situation in a healthy and empowering way.

[Anonymous]

Normal convo...
Don't overthink

[Asker]

But rough how? I don’t get it

We were going to be friends with benefits so it’s not like he didn’t want to sleep with me he just didn’t bc he didn’t want me to catch feelings.. which hurt

[Opinion Owner]

Rough sex

[Asker]

But we were never intimate and never met up in person due to work

[Opinion Owner]

Aw girl you just want to get fucked or want relationship?

[Asker]

I really did like him but he claimed for the longest that he wasn’t looking for a relationship. We stopped talking in October and he entered into a relationship a month later… it was devastating

He didn’t want sex anymore bc he didn’t want me to catch feelings for him

[Opinion Owner]

Damn you're in terrible situation...

Girl you have backup plan?

[Asker]

Nope

I feel sad. Like I’m not good enough.

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck no..
Come lemme hug you please relax babe...

Don't be sad babe it's his lose

[Asker]

I appreciate it 🥺💖

[Opinion Owner]

Wish i can take care of yours
Please love don't be sad 😘