I wonder if I'm being creepy or kinda cute, because there's this guy I've been hooking up with and none of us wants anything serious, but I really enjoy telling him compliments and being attentive to little details, like e. g. he always deletes his birthday on social medias, but I always remember and send him happy birthday texts, and if he posts something, I always like it and if he discusses that or something else besides sex, I always tell him how handsome/sexy/smart/special/etc. he is.
I've never been that much positive person, but I just enjoy giving him those daily affirmations. I even screenshoted parts about him written in my diary and sent him to confirm I was being like 100% sincere.
So guys, would you find that cute or creepy?
Guys, is it a turn-on for you, if a girl (any girl you have sex with) openly expresses their feelings about you?
You had me going until you said you would screenshot your diary and send it to him. I think that's a little excessive. Compliments are good for the man's ego, but don't overdo it. If you like every single post he writes and shower him with compliments no matter what he says, he might view it as not very genuine or you being a little too eager. Some guys might like that a lot, they want girls that are obsessed with them. I personally do not.
It's very much a turn-on. Obviously, anything can become excessive and off-putting if you lay it on too heavy, but expressing your affection for the man you're having sex with is extremely important.
Yes. Oxytocin does this to people. It shows that you are more than just a hookup. Never be afraid to share how you feel. The right guy will not criticize you for it.
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