The guy loved me with his whole heart but I rejected him as I failed to accept love. Mostly I felt he was a threat to my then boyfriend. He was love bombing.
4 Years later I broke up and went back to this guy as I felt he is the only one who showed me dedication and selfless love (TBH nobody ever loved me in my bad times when I was depressed and looked ugly).
By then he has moved onn and but mostly used my words sic (Literally every word I used to reject him) to talk to me and reject me.
As he avoided me , I moved onn to my new boyfriend and hookups. But then he got butt hurt and angry for my actions and giving my body to others.
My question is, Do I actually love him or is it the fear of being lonely, that made me go back to him.
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It was the fear of being alone, you knew this guy was exhibiting toxic behavior when you had the first boyfriend, you ignored that in the name of trying with him even though he clearly didn’t respect the relationship and when you took the natural route of moving on after his rejection, you still care that he’s angry. We all like having attention, but you also need to recognize that your fear of being alone is going to drive you to some pretty shitty men
I think being lonely has a lot to do with it. Do you miss the sex or just being with him... perhaps both?