I NEED ADVICE? Help?

[jesika8]

Long story short I've been in my new job for almost a monthrr, a guy from work and I started getting really touchy touchy fast. There's obviously an attraction to one another. To the point where we would sneak off and kiss and most recently [DONT JUDGE] we messed around in my car during break. He ended up fingering me Now I don't ever do this.

He hasn't told me he has a girlfriend but I have the feeling he does. We were kissing in my car and at some point he pushed my head over to his neck to kiss. I said okay I don't want to leave you a mark and his response was yes that won't be good.

well Friday he needed up leaving me some marks on my neck.

Only time he even brought up the idea of hanging out outside of work was when he asked if I've been to the movies lately, I said yeah and he then said I haven't. He didn't ask to go see a movie

Now I do like this man, I just now feel like he seems me as easy or slutty for the things we have done but in reality I've only been with one guy. Due to the fact we work in the same place I feel like it's weird now. I've thought about quitting. Please any advice thoughts will help

[iron_ninjs]

Don't quit because of that.
Ask him to take things slower. If he doesn't want to, he probably has someone else. If he's okay with it, then you decide what to do.
That's the best advice I can give you right now.

[mommymommymommy]

I don't think you actually like this guy

Seeing as how you "just broke up". I think you're just looking for a quick lay.

DO NOT DATE COWORKERS

ITS NOT OK

[Pinay_ako]

Yea better wrap it up before you get caught and end up embarrassing yourselves. Work places have cameras you know. Quit ahead before you get fired

[leahzrc]

probably has a girlfriend if he never asked to hang out outside of work... gurrrrl... poor girlfriend :(

[spartan55]

"I don't ever do this" ... if I had a dime... 🙄

[jesika8]

I'm sure you have a penny though

[spartan55]

You 'don't ever do' which part? Get fingered in the parking lot at lunch, or fool around with a taken guy? Don't judge... right. Gross.

[jesika8]

You must not get any lol ouch

[spartan55]

Wrong, nice try though. Actually your attempt was weak af. AND (bonus) I don't ever have to fuck some other dude's girlfriend either.
Keep trying to turn the spotlight onto someone else... such a joke. Just own it.

[jesika8]

I hit a nerve lol. Stay mad

[spartan55]

I think you have that backwards there slut.

[jesika8]

😂😂😂. Sounds like you got cheated on lol. Poor you. Sucks to be you

[spartan55]

Never once was cheated on and what would that have to do with you being a skank? You don't even make sense. It's interesting that you have to make shit up about me to try to keep up. You revealed how gross you are. I didn't have to make up shit... keep trying.

[jesika8]

You are clearly butt hurt for a reason, wasting your time on my post lol. So yes you are a waste of an opinion

[spartan55]

Lol... if you say so. You can't even explain why you are using the terms you are using on me.
So, because you have no moral code, and think it's okay to help some shithead cheat... means I'm 'butthurt', been cheated on, and don't get any because I call you out for being a skank. At least make insults that apply, or make sense. You can't even do that. You are just trying to divert the attention away from your gross behavior. It's pathetic.
...

[spartan55]

Who says I'm wasting my time? You? Lol.
... yeah okay.

[jesika8]

Knowing you are mad makes my dad lol. STAY MAD

[spartan55]

Was never mad at anything. Keep tryin.

[In_Trance]

If he fingers you while he has a girlfriend, he'll finger another girl when you're his girlfriend.
Think about that.

Now get back to work before you get fired