Where should I go with this?

[Anonymous]

A guy anonymously proposed to me on facebook (under a name I don’t recognise). There was a picture of a very expensive diamond ring and fingers holding it, with the words, ‘Will you marry me?’ Above it. It’s the same person, whoever it is, that has been trying to tell me they love me. Is someone messing with me? Or is someone trying to say they love me, or that they have a crush on me? I know several men. Some fancy me, others don’t.

[LiamJHayden]

99.99% it's a scam. 0.01% it is some weak guy who fancies you. Best to ignore either way.

[Asker]

So it’s either a scam, or a weak friend/acquaintance trying to say they’ve got a big crush on me and want to be my boyfriend/husband?

[MementoMori777]

Sure it's not a type of scan, either ways it doesn't sound comforting lol

[MementoMori777]

Scam*

[Asker]

Nope, not a scam. Someone who knows me

[Asker]

Should I stay off Facebook for a few days?

[MementoMori777]

Then he seems to just be proposing very oddly

[MementoMori777]

I don't know, why would you do that?

[Asker]

Because I think it’s erratic and that someone is messing with me.

[MementoMori777]

But you know him tho, you said

[Asker]

If he really wants to marry me, then why is he asking through Facebook, under a fake account, instead of directly?

[MementoMori777]

Follow your gut on this tho, if you think you gotta avoid then avoid 😆🙌

[MementoMori777]

You make a good point, how do you know it's him?

[Asker]

I must know him whoever it is knows my spending habits and my personality.

[Asker]

But it could be any one out of five guys.

[MementoMori777]

Well I've never seen a proposal through a fake account and through a picture, that's odd and I don't know how anyone would be comfortable saying yes

[MementoMori777]

You should send Mr anon a message and say to do it in person

[Asker]

Sounds like someone messing with me, doesn’t it?

[MementoMori777]

Yea or just someone with no rizz game at all, do any of the five guys you suspect all seem good at flirting or whatever, cause if there's one that isn't, that's Mr anon

[Asker]

There are 2 that aren’t.

[MementoMori777]

Hmm aha that leaves us with two suspects 🤔

[MementoMori777]

Is there one more attractive than the other?

[MementoMori777]

If so who has less self confidence

[Asker]

Yes. One’s attractive and the other isn’t

[MementoMori777]

Then the one that isn't is your number one suspect

[Asker]

So you think it’s an unattractive guy that fancies me that’s one of my friends and has no courage?

[Asker]

I’m not really good with social cues.

[MementoMori777]

Yes because a guy with confidence looks and rizz game would've done it in person, don't just take my word for it cause they can be pranking you as well so it can go either way, my best bet would be to respond to it and ask who it is, you might identify him by the way he texts

[Asker]

It’s someone wealthy and articulate. Which rules out half of them.

[MementoMori777]

Half? So are the rizzless ones wealthy?

[Asker]

Yes at least two are.

[Asker]

But I’m not and they both liked me, but had a strong sense of my inferiority.

[MementoMori777]

Damn it, that leaves us right back where we were, can you identify them by the way they message you?

[Asker]

I think., it’s one of the two rich guys. Both are articulate. One I remember saying I loved, but it wouldn’t work, as our values are different. I got a message ‘We are different. I use money to make more. You use money to look like you’ve got more.’

[Asker]

The other I was dating, but fell out with, because he was very sexist.

[MementoMori777]

Sounds like you found Mr anon, I was gonna say something else but I wrote it in the wrong post cause i had a weird lag but it's invalid now cause I think you found him

[Asker]

Which one is it, then? Of the two?

[MementoMori777]

Now about the proposal, for someone that's rich you'd expect him to be highly intelligent but I don't understand how he thought doing an anonymous proposal was working to his favor

[MementoMori777]

Wow you really aren't that good at social cues, not the sexist one 🤦‍♂️ 😂

[Asker]

No I’m not. I’m an aspie.

[Asker]

If it’s the other one, then why won’t he be direct with me?

[MementoMori777]

Oh sorry 😶

[MementoMori777]

That's something I'm not going to know

[Asker]

Fair enough 😊. So you think I should be direct? Post on Facebook that the person should ask me directly?

[MementoMori777]

Yea but remember the possibility if it being a joke is there so just so you don't blame me if shit goes south lol

[Asker]

Lol true

[MementoMori777]

Yep best of luck blueeyes, I hope you get the results you seek for.

[Asker]

Thanks 😊

[MementoMori777]

💯🙏

[ZombieInLove]

A scammer has been detected.