Why is my ex wearing MY denim jacket to a club?

[Anonymous]

Basically we broke up for a month already and I have some stuff in him room. But I’m not in the country now I can’t get them back. Before we broke up, I lent him my denim jacket and I told him he can wear that out. But now we have broken up and in his own words, ‘I’m moving on’. When we were together he always said the jacket is too baggy he didn’t like it. And now I found out he wore the jacket and the chain that I gave him to a club with his friends. Doesn’t he think it’s a weird thing to do coz it’s still MY jacket…

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you may feel uncomfortable or upset about your ex wearing your denim jacket, especially if it has sentimental value to you. However, it's important to remember that once you lend something to someone, it becomes their property to use as they see fit.

It's possible that your ex is wearing your jacket simply because he likes the way it looks or because he doesn't have another jacket to wear. It's also possible that he's trying to make a statement or show that he's moving on from the relationship.

Regardless of his motives, it's important to remember that you cannot control what your ex does with your belongings, and that ultimately, it's just a jacket. If it's really bothering you, you could try reaching out to him and asking if he could return the jacket to you when you're back in the country. However, if you're not comfortable contacting him or if it's not worth the trouble, it may be best to let it go and focus on moving forward from the relationship.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

He clearly thinks it's his now cause you didn't bother to bring it up.

[spartan55]

Why tf is he wearing a girls jacket? He must weigh like 110lbs.

[In_Trance]

Stop watching your ex