Ok, so a little background here.
So I know this guy (divorced dad, busy professional). Aweek ago when I sent him a text asking him if he knew of any restaurants in the city that were still serving food at a late hour (he goes out to eat more than I do, so). He made suggestions but then offered to cook for me. I went over and he made me a nice meal, even though he wasn't eating. After I ate, he suggested a movie. We watched the movie and ended up cuddling. We both fell asleep on the couch for hours. When we woke up, he said, "It's really late... do you just want to stay?" I stayed, and of course, all the things happened.
The next day, I ran into him at a store, and about 20 minutes later, got a text saying, "You're welcome to come over, if you like." So I went over... He picked out a really sweet movie. After the movie was over, he said, "Would you like to stay the night? You don't have to, you know... but... if you want to stay, you can." I stayed.
Three days later, I see him at a club. He sends me a text after asking if I'd like to come over. I do. This time, he's falling asleep when I get there. I say I can go, and he grabs ahold of my hand and says, "Do you want to sleep in with me tomorrow? I don't have to wake up early tomorrow..." So, I stayed and we went to bed.
Now it's 4 days later, and I haven't really heard from him. He's never been a great texter, and he's said work has been total chaos and that he's going to have his son.
Anyway.. I just can't figure out if he's interested in me or not.
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Based on what you've described, it sounds like this guy is interested in you. He invited you over to his place multiple times, cooked for you, cuddled with you, and even invited you to spend the night. These are all signals that he enjoys spending time with you and wants to be close to you.
It's possible that he's busy with work and his son, which is why you haven't heard from him in a few days. It's also possible that he's not a great texter or prefers to communicate in person. If you're interested in seeing him again, you could reach out and suggest making plans together. This will give you a better sense of whether he's interested in continuing to see you.
That being said, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other about your intentions and expectations. It's possible that he may not be looking for a serious relationship right now, or he may be interested in something more casual. It's important to have a conversation about what you're both looking for and make sure you're on the same page. Good luck!
He hasn't heard from you either so why would he think you are interested?
No, he's heard from me. I sent him a text on Saturday night, telling him I had finally stopped by a mutual friend's place to pick something up (as we'd talked about that before I left his place). He responded with a smiley face.
Either of you could have messaged or called (even better)
If you only want him to feed you, say that. Do not beat around the bush. Dive in.