Just an excuse or he’s honest?
What are the differences?
Does one of you want marriage and the other doesn't?
Does one of you want kids and the other doesn't?
Does one have a history of monogamous relationships and the other with casual sex and threesome?
Is one of you into the single, club scene and the other isn't?
Is one of you a heavy drinker and the other isn't?
I mean, if he told you plainly what goal is different why would you not take him at his word? Did he not say what the difference is? Did you not ask?
Most Helpful Opinions
You only went on one date with the guy and you are still going on and on about it? Yesterday it was you getting annoyed because he looked at your story updates, today you are yet again questioning his reason for not wanting to see you anymore. Dude wasn't feelin it... it was just one date... let it go already.
Why are you so fixated on this? Whether he was honest or not he still rejected you and that’s ok, it comes with dating. Don’t date if you’re gonna be that sensitive over something on working out so soon into it.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
5Opinion
Did he cite specific examples of which life goals?
No way for us to know if he is lying or not. But it doesn't matter, either way he's not interested in you.
Life goals do need to be the same to be a match though, hobbies and interests too.Sounds like the truth, some people are too different to be with each other even if they were attracted to each other.
Either way at least you found out early on before you caught feelings.
Same as before yes I think it was genuine
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!