He’s a weird texter, do you think he doesn’t care about me?

[Anonymous]

So I'm texting this guy, but it seems impossible for us to have a meaningful conversation. He used to text me frequently in the beginning, but now when I text him, he sometimes says, "Sorry, forgot to reply." Does that mean that he is no longer interested in texting, doesn't truly care, or doesn't take me seriously? Should i respond to him?

[asphaltrhymes]

I guess everyone is weird. Hmm. Interest, hard to say. I lose interest in things and sometimes I just need my space. Other times, maybe i've changed or something's changed for me.
Ah well. With age, I've grown better though 😋 hopefully if not him, you find someone slightly older slightly wiser. At the art of just being cool and chatty 👍🙃

[spartan55]

No it doesn't mean he isn't interested ffs. It means, like most guys he HATES texting. Girls can't/won't understand this. So, think outside the box a little. Maybe call him. Or keep trying to force a square peg in a round hole and then blame him for it.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Exactly.

[Pinay_ako]

He’s just probably busy like most adults! Some guys are just not into texting. Why don’t you call him? Don’t make him think you’re sitting by your phone all day waiting for a text back from him. Fill your day with other things. If he likes you or wants to know you more, he’ll find other ways to let you know that and you won’t have to even ask.

[Pinay_ako]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

Next! Another entitled male pig that only cares about his own needs. The only thing he is interested in is feeding his sexual apetite and his ego. He forgot to answer? No problem, you can just forget he exists. He can keep scratching his head confused all he wants he will never understand. Selfish people cannot understand! Move on.

[spartan55]

Nevermind if he doesn't like texting, right?

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 read what she said: he used to text frequently in the beginning. It's like textbook typical, lol. And then read: we can't have a meaningful conversation (she didn't say texting conversation so I assume she meant any type). Like helloo nothing else needed be said, it's not he doesn't like texting, he simply doesn't conversing and connecting with her, simple as that. So yeah, next!

[spartan55]

I read what she said. We like it at first to humor you girls. But we get bored and sick of it FAST. Learn to adapt ffs. There are phones remember.

[OfMiceandMen]

Weird texter - just because he doesn't want to spend 2 hours texting about something that could be discussed over the phone in 15 minutes?

I wouldn't take it as, he is no longer interested in you, he simply may not be the type of guy that texts for hours on end.

I know I am one of those guys. I'd be pulling my hair out having a full conversation by text.

[provokeesmokee]

Someone who cares about you won't regularly forget.

But it's possible he is a terrible texter.

Sit him down for an in person chat and talk about how being forgotten makes you feel. And ask if he'd rather use a different method of communication.

[Death_To_Stress]

Move on. You already see his interest waning and it's not like he can go to the pharmacist for a shot of charisma and a 2-week supply of conversationalism. #1 dating mistake: idealizing our partner and making excuses for them instead of accepting reality. Good luck

[itsalyssaagain]

It could be for so many reasons. Ranging from he’s a bad texter to him playing games.


My advice is - if he’s not making an effort to see you and if your time together isn’t enjoyable and he makes you feel secure, then you are wasting your precious time.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

"Meaningful conversations" shouldn't be done over text. Much better to do that in person or over the phone.

[Anonymous]

For the one millionth time!

You can't forge a relationship with texting, period!

[najekim]

Try calling. Texting a conversation is ridiculous.

[Staximus]

Maybe you should nevermind all the stupid texting and have a normal conversation with him in person like an adult

[Crankor]

If he says he forgot to relpy then he doesn't think about you. You make time for things that are important to you busy or not.

[In_Trance]

Have you called him?
How often?
What do you talk about?
How long?

[spartan55]

No.
Never.
Nothing.
I don't know.

[Jltakk]

I am a "weird" texter myself. I don't know what to type and I already have trouble with social cues and figuring out what to say.

[Anonymous]

No, I just think he doesn't enjoy texting you.

It doesn't mean he doesn't like you because us just don't like texting as much as you Girls do.

[RHK36]

He's not interested anymore

[MannMitAntworten]

He likely moved on.

[Anonymous]

send an ass pic