While dumping why did he say this?

[Anonymous]

He said ” despite everything I wish you all the best. May god bless you”

i feel like he over did it. He made it seem like he still cares about me or has feelings for me despite dumping me..

[HollyK21]

I didn’t want to hijack boopboopbeeps question, but why must he do something bad in order for the relationship to end? You think it’s pitiful to wish that god blesses you or something? Sometimes it’s just the end of the road, there doesn’t have to be some deep meaning behind it.

[HollyK21]

**why must you do something bad

[Asker]

I felt like he was pitying me. He sent long paragraph..

[Asker]

it made me more angry lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

@hollyk21 hijack away! Guess we're going to re-ask every week anyway until she gets the answer she likes.

[HollyK21]

Breaking up through text in general is childish and sad, he could at least FaceTime you if anything. I guess for whatever reason he felt he couldn’t do it in person. Anyway, if you consider yourself a spiritual person, then you shouldn’t take someone sending you a prayer or blessing as pity. I know it’s hard not to feel angry or hurt in this moment, but you should start working on making peace with the breakup. Feeling the way you do just takes too much energy that honestly he may not even deserve. I think the part of you that knows this deep down is what caused you to anonymize it in the first place.

[HollyK21]

@BoopBoopBeep thanks lol, I too have noticed this question asked before and I hope she gets the answer she’s looking for. But if it pops up again, I guess we’ll know whether or not she actually wants to heal from this situation rather than dwell.

[Asker]

@hollyk21 He was reassuring me like ”
One day you will find your mr right” wtf I don’t need him to tell me that

[kylee2437]

@asker would you have rather he called you a stupid bitch or something? Lol

[Asker]

@kylee2437 rather prefer if he kept it short and leaved that out

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe he knew you can't ever move on from anything and that's why he pities you. Seems valid.

[HollyK21]

Asker, it’s one of those “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve” situations. Sure he could’ve done or said things differently but he didn’t, it is what it is. So what do you do now? Continue to drag this out and dwell on how things ended? Nothing we say or do will change the outcome. You’ve got to move on.

[kylee2437]

Someone wanting to leave on positive terms doesn’t mean they still have feelings for you. It just seems like he realized there’s something he can’t work with relationship wise

[BoopBoopBeep]

you asked this before. the answer is the same. I have no ill will towards you, i wish you the best. It means he's not an emotional cripple, stop trying to read something into it.

[Asker]

I never did anything bad to him so how would he even have any ill will for me

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well he still dumped you.

[Asker]

I felt like he was pitying me. He sent long paragraph.. it made me more angry lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

Okay but either way, for whatever reason, he didn't want to be with you anymore. That doesn't mean he wants you to die in a fire. What part of what he said is confusing to you? Do you wish all your ex's were dead or something? No? Then he feels the same way.

[Asker]

He was reassuring me like ”
One day you will find your mr right” wtf I don’t need him to tell me that

[BoopBoopBeep]

Great then get over it and move on with your life

[RedHotSallyJo]

Anon... lol