Why wouldn’t the guy I’ve been in a situation ship with want to see me before I leave for vacation for a month he said there’s no point?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been in a situation ship for 6 months and ended for a month and got back about 2 weeks ago I’m leaving now and he doesn’t want to see me before I go and just stopped texting me

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+1 y

He came back to me! He told me he was thinking about me and regret his decision to not see me. He was angry that he wasn’t gonna see me for 5 weeks and then when I’m back he’s leaving for school. He just didn’t want to get hurt and tried to end it as quick as possible to avoid getting hurt :(

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+1 y

He came back to me!!! He was angry that I was leaving and we weren’t going to spend time together before he leaves for school:( it will workout tho. See you never know….

[SueShe]

From his behavior, I would say that your situationship did not end on a good note and that he does not have the need or urge to say goodbye to you before you leave.

It all depends on what you understand under "situationship" and how he perceives this same situationship.

To me, his lack of enthusiasm tells me simply that he would like to draw a line over this situationship and forget it as soon as possible. For him not to want to see you before your departure leads me to believe that his feelings for you are gone and that you should not expect anything from him.

[_Maya_]

Hard to say what he was thinking that caused him to not want to see you off. Ask him. If he has stopped texting I don't think that is a good sign. Did something happen that could have made him mad? Maybe the breakup did. He might have gotten back together with you and realized he couldn't move past whatever caused the breakup in the first place. Just a guess.

[Asker]

We’ll when I’m back he’s leaving for school a few weeks later for the year. I just feel like he’s mad that I’m going to have a good time on vacation and doesn’t want to talk to me while I’m away. He came back to me 2 weeks before I was leaving and he knew that. I’m just not sure :(

[_Maya_]

That is pretty juvenile of him to be mad about a nice vacation.

[Anonymous]

You won't know anything from texting. Talk to him or just move on.

[ProbablyClueless]

Simple: he doesn't care about you.

[mommymommymommy]

It sounds like a toxic relationship

[Asker]

Could it turn into a good one? If he matures?

[mommymommymommy]

Probably not. Toxic relationships are usually built on sludge. Meaning, someone lied in the beginning most likely

[Iron_Man]

You’re too young to be dating anyway

[WhitneySnow]

Awesome!!!