I’m pretty sure a guy is ghosting me, I only sent 3 messages in the last 2 weeks and he read them all within minutes of getting them but doesn’t reply! I just don’t understand why you would bother to even read them if you don’t care enough to answer them?
Keep sending him messages for him to just ignore. He don’t wanna talk to you at all… it was obvious when he ghosted you the first time.
Have some respect for yourself and end the communication, because you’re only gonna end up making yourself look dumb if you keep trying.
Look at this situation from his perspective, he can’t see you two together in future. He might feel attracted to you, he might not.
But he doesn’t see the reason to talk. Which is okay, because I am sure there’s a solid reason behind this. And if you knew that reason you’d sympathize with him and understand him.
Think about it, deep down you might know the exact reason, you are probably just not honest with yourself.
It doesn’t mean you are a bad person, or that you are unattractive, it just means, at this moment, your interests are conflicted.
Respect yourself and his decision and learn to read his silence. I am sure you’ll learn a lot more in his silence about yourself too. It’s not always about the other person, sometimes the problem really is in us. Try to fix that problem, good luck.
he’s an asshole and you should block him. i’m sorry this is happening to you.
Maybe your messages are boring. Why wouldn't you just block him?
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he's rude.
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