Do you agree that men are easy?

[Anonymous]

I get so annoyed by women who say men are easy or men will sleep with anyone because that’s clearly not the case. What about the several women who have never been approached, never dated or are always rejected? That sort of thinking just exacerbates the notion that our self worth should be rooted in male validation.

[236color]

Let's perform a thought experiment. Random woman walks into any bar in the world and says she wants to have with a man, are there any volunteers. How often do you think she wouldn't find at least one. (This is a hypothetical, not considering if this would be safe of if she would want to have sex with the volunteers).

Now reverse genders. Unless the man is famously wealthy or extremely good looking or both, he would fail almost always.

Most women if they aren't very picky, can have sex pretty much whenever they choose. Men have jump though a lot of hoops, and even then often fail. Most of us go through a period when we couldn't get laid in a whore house with a fist full of fifties.

So why do they say men are easy? Because we are.

[Asker]

You believe that if ANY woman walked into a bar and requested a man she’d get one? it’s simply not true lol

[236color]

A lot closer than it is for men.

[Anonymous]

Men are pretty easy. We're about as easy as 1-2-3. 1. Stick the quarter in. 2. Turn the handle. 3. Get candy.

We only seem complicated to some women because those women 1. have no idea what thier marketability. 2. No clear idea of what they're trying to accomplish as it relates to point 1.. Or 3. they simply do not want to put the effort forth to achieve said goal.

But also understand most woman that say men are easy, really aren't trying get those men. Just manipulate and control those men. Trust me it's hard to get ANYONE man or woman to commit. Because 1. You have to put ego aside and be willing to give of yourself. Most people are unwilling to do that. And 2. Be ok with the fact that sometimes you're going to give and sometimes feel you're not getting the same back. And people are definitely not ok with that.

[Anonymous]

Um.. men will sleep with just about anyone with a vagina. Men will even sleep with women they hate and just never speak to them again.

However, men are becoming more cautious of who they approach. No guy wants to be labeled as a creep.

The girls who get rejected get rejected because they wouldn't put out, or the guy thinks she's extremely unattractive.

[AaronKrieger]

They definitely can be unfortunately.

[barn_stormer]

I'm not easy. I have super high standards