Is a guy saying “believe what you want” a sign that he was cheating?

[Mhmmmalreadykno]

If he was approached with an accusation and said he didn't do it then said believe what you want does it mean he could of been possibly cheating?

[Finchie40]

Girls’ that cheat say the same exact thing when they are confronted , Believe what you want. The cheater uses these words to make the person they cheated on feel they are in the wrong. A cheater is going to try to cover their tracks every which way possible to try to play innocent when really they are a POS. Sadly without solid evidence or proof the cheater is going to try to cover their tracks as much as possible , Once a cheater knows you are onto them , they will become more sneaky to make you look like you were constantly in the wrong , by you accusing them in the first place. Without solid evidence , you should never confront a cheater , when a cheater feels they are getting away with their actions, that’s the best way to bust them, I know it’s a horrible feeling to be cheated on , because I been in your shoes a handful of times. Most people cheat whether it’s physical or emotional and most people will deny it , because they don’t want to be ridiculed or criticized for their actions. They sugarcoat it to make themselves feel like they are innocent when really they are a POS. One thing I learned about relationships is most people in general are selfish people that only really care about themselves. So for love to even grow in a relationship, both partner’s have to learn to remove selfishness for each other, basically wear each other’s shoes before making decisions and understanding you can’t always be right and Your partner is wrong, Most relationships fail because people do not know how to remove selfishness for each other and then they wonder why their partner left them or cheated on them. My advice to you is to focus on yourself and realize you deserve someone that will not stray or walk away from you , the only way you can receive that from someone is by you treating them the same way you want to be treated in return , if they choose to walk away or choose to cheat on you , that’s something they have to live with , knowing they are a POS , even though a cheater feels they are Getting away with their actions, little do they realize it is slowly eating them up in the inside and before they realize it, they are just living a lie , if a person wants To live their life in a lie , they are only hurting themselves. It’s not your problem, unless you decide to do to them , what they did to you. Remember 2 wrongs do not make a right , if you end up cheating on them that makes you just as bad as a person as they are. From my experiences in relationships , the best thing you can do for
Yourself , is to let that so called partner that claims to love you , cheat on you , because they will suffer the consequences of their actions and the truth will eventually shine giving you the right to walk away and they will have nothing
To say. If someone truly loves you they will not cheat on you period, why I no longer jump into relationships with girls because most people do not look at the big picture before entering into a
Committed relationship, they are just infatuated with each other, We can only love someone that loves us back the same, we can only give to someone , what we want Want to receive in return , Love only grows when 2 people make
Each other their top priority and remove selfishness for each other , My advice is do not get into a relationship with someone that can’t remove selfishness for you that doesn’t make you their top priority , You should always be their
Top priority the same way you make them yours ,

[coachTanthony]

If the man is saying that then that means some woman has beat him over the head with this notion that he is cheating. So if he is and you have proof then great if you don't have proof and don't trust him great then leave.. . either way you'll never trust him again.

[CarlosX360]

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[BlackBeauty90]

No it's not.

Simple people really shouldn't get involved together. Unless you have proof - and why in other situations such as theif, etc. if there's no proof that police & courts laughter will follow you out of the building - this is most certainly NOT a sign that he is cheating.

It's a sign he doesn't care if you believe him or not and that's just as bad as cheating.

If he hasn't cheated your attitude - because his response is a defeatist response after probably having heard you whine & cry far too much about little things - will make him.

[Xoxocutekitty]

It's definitely something a cheater would say.

While not admitting to cheating, it's also not a denial of cheating.

Any person ylwhontakes you and your relationship seriously would try to clear their name and work to restore your trust in them.

[provokeesmokee]

Not necessarily, but I definitely shows you he doesn't care about your feelings or fears.

In my mind, I'd treat that the same as an admission, but mostly because of the sheer disrespect and disengagement.

Obviously no future relationship there.

[ohsheeT]

His words can mean anything he could be telling the truth or he could be lying listen to the words but feel them look at his eyes look at his body language look at the tone of his skin his eyes his body language his voice will tell you everything you want to know without him even knowing that he's telling you

[ohsheeT]

And instead of saying I don't believe you I don't believe you try okay fine I believe you and then see what he has to say after that he will dig himself a hole so deep if he's lying he will change the subject he will do anything in the world to get off that topic

[236color]

If it was me, it would mean I know you're convinced I was cheating, and nothing I say is going to change your mind. It also means that guilty or not, I'm about done with you.

[RoseySarah]

Yes he is flat out cheating and cares so little that you caught him and he is just to proud to admit your right

Divorce time!

[EmmaMary]

That's guys classic saying when they've well and truly been caught out.

[Finchie40]

Girls’ say the same thing when they cheated as well

[EmmaMary]

@Finchie40

I do tend to agree with you.

[Finchie40]

@EmmaMary read my book I just posted lol

[EmmaMary]

@Finchie40

And what book would that be?

[Finchie40]

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[spartan55]

Why would that be a sign he is cheating? I'd work on getting actual facts.

[WhitneySnow]

He sounds defensive but that’s not enough to prove he was cheating

[RoastedToast]

If it was me saying that personally then it would mean I wouldn't care or can't be bothered to respond to the accusations. Probably both

[BigDog1989]

It means, you can believe what you want to believe. And act upon those beliefs. It doesn't mean ANYTHING

[Anonymous]

It means 1. You don't have solid proof. And 2. He knows you won't believe anything he tells you anyway, which brings me to 3...*if* he's right about that, why are you with him?🤔

[Anonymous]

It sounds more like he's just sick of your accusations at this point so, "believe what you want" because you're going to anyhow.

[KrakenAttackin]

It means he is tired of crazy bitch accusations.

[Kacka]

mby, but if all good with u two, u should know, has he a reason?

[Anonymous]

It could be that or he's tired of explaining why he didn't cheat?

[strateguy632]

certainly not cheated.

[cloud9vortex1234]

Not enough proof

[grega239]

It means he can't be bothered with it

[normandi]

No... he just doesn't care