I noticed that men try to flirt with me and act very smooth while with the pretty girls they act more shy, flustered and agitated. Is it because they think I’m only good enough for sex because I’m not that pretty?
You are right about the flirting behavior. It's easier around a woman who is not stunningly beautiful. However, I think when she is naturally beautiful and not wearing dramatic make-up then it is also reassuring already.
You are wrong about thinking it means you are "only good enough for sex". Never allow yourself such destructive thoughts (!)
Some men cannot easily build an emotional connection with a woman, but most of the time it is because they have sex too soon and too easily. Some men will get attached swiftly and some never do. It really does not need great beauty to make a man fall in love.
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I've dated hundreds, banged over 500+, also done P0RN in the past, etc..
I've dated every type, supermodels, p0rnstars or chics who made adult content, and then your average plain Janes / next door girl types.
When I was more naive and young I had trouble flirting with any type, but I'm here to say that they're really not different at all, especially once the makeup comes off. Knowing what most models look like without makeup and banging so many different types, it's not hard to flirt anymore. It's rare I see an exceptional hot chic, but it is true, the less attractive she is, the more easy it is to run game on her. I clean house on Tinder and Bumble with the 4s / 5s and 6s (typically single moms in their mid 30s, average face, no tiits, no azz, etc..). It's like shooting fish into a barrel with that type.
No. Just means they’re more confident around you because they don’t think you’re as pretty (which is really shallow of them).
Think about it... if you were flirting with an average looking dude vs an hot dude. Which case would you be more nervous
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I don't flirt. I've traveled extensively. For some reason, when it comes to interacting... many various types of guys feel comfortable socializing with me, but with women, ONLY certain kinds of women feel comfortable ON SIGHT to even acknowledge my presence, let alone interject themselves into a conversation I'm having so we can find common ground. Virtually most any immigrant, or Black female, I can tell is very receptive to my persona and interests. White American females just stare. I can see it in their faces. I'm like an animal that's gotten treated well by certain types of humans. So I'm casually receptive to sharing things and helping and getting to know... all women who aren't White American.
No. It's because those women give those guys NOTHING. With some women they not only feel it's a guys job to pursue her, but also to do ALL the work. Guys like positive feedback. If if you aren't consciously doing it you're probably giving the guy nonverbal positive feedback which is why he "appears" smooth.
Yes because they feel like it’s not that as a bad of a lose verse if it was a 10/10 women and of course this all stems from putting women on a pedestal if people didn’t do that they wouldn’t have this problem
Fat women have been proven to have more sexually transmitted diseases and it is theorized that's because the men don't give a shit about them.
You could be more worried about negative reactions with a very pretty girl but pretty girls can be very flirty.
they are not flirting with you because they want you to rotate their tyres.
I have only flirted with someone that I find attractive.Short answer: yes!
Long answer: YES!!
the more beautiful the women is the more they get nervous , so yes
Finding a woman attractive would make most men less confident around her.
I don't show interest period unless I find her very attractive, so no.
They are more comfortable with you, thats why it's easier and they are at ease.
I don't care. My mind does not work that way.
Nah, I don't flirt. Men in general do though, yeah.
Yes, generally the more attractive a girl is the harder it is too approach her.
Sure, if the attraction is their.
Pretty much
Nope
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