Guys, Why do 30 year old guys hate so much on men in their 40 ?

[Alwayreckles93]

I'm engaged with a sweet kind christian guy. Surprisingly we connected very well not once we never aurgue fight. He very sweet something I never saw ina guy my own age. Now I noticed that guys my own age make hateful comments andntry to compete and get angry when they see a girl my age with a mature guy in his 40s. From what I've seen guys in their 40s attend to be more mindful and mature while guys my own age are all men childs giant 5 year olds traped inside a grown mens body. My ex was very violent and selfish. Are just men in their 30s all men childs?

[Bklynbadboy12]

See this right here is how women go wrong. Y'all want the fairy tail and that's impossible to get. I don't care what relationship your in sooner or later your gonna have arguments and there is nothing wrong with that you just have to build on it. How can you fix something if you don't know it's broken. Then there is the age gap when you 50 he'll be 60 what then. I don't know what happened to you in your last relationship but he hurt you bad cause I can tell you hate guys in there thirties. I'm sorry you got hurt but don't let it change you. You can't blame every man in his 30's for what happened to you. You seem like an beautiful intelligent young lady don't let your experience with him change you cause if you do then he wins and don't limit yourself to just older me or you'll never find happiness. Just think about what I'm saying and you'll see I'm right

[Alwayreckles93]

My ex pinch me , kick me so bad my ribs got hroken of how hard he kick me and he throw me across the living room my neighbor at that time called the police on him. I was at the ER in this horrible pain crying for help. I don't know what happened that day something change in me. It os a mericle I'm still alive. He never loved me I was just a prized not more. On covid period time he locked me inside a room while he went to work. Thankfully i memorize the wifi password. I found an old phone that was disconnected in that room and I used it. I was locked for a whole week. I had another bad experience relationship before my marriage in the past Iwas 18 he was 17 lost case. I was never appreciated. I cook meals for my ex he would ditch me on dinner and he would go play vidoe games Iwas left alone. I was his punching bag his mom would always make the decision because his mom was his first priority. My got involve in amway I also cheated on me. Yet here people still want me to like guys my age 😪 they're selfish.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm so sorry you had to go through that and my heart truly goes out to you but we're not all like that. I'm your age and trust me I'd never treat any woman like that. I don't know you but we've talked a few time and you seem pretty cool I don't know why any guy would treat you that way. Just don't let it Chang you your blessing is on that way. Just stay sweet and continue to like your best life cause you truly are amazing

[Alwayreckles93]

Thanks friends , I really don't pucture my self much less putmy self in that position never. I learn my lesson. I don't plan on being a punching bag.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Don't worry now you have me as a friend your very own 6'5 272 pound bodyguard

[Alwayreckles93]

Thanks.

[Alwayreckles93]

there's been a lot of users here to my age that had called me old and names especially that one guy who keeps changing his name tornado , palmtreeof thenyear the king 2010. Yeah so im good with my fiance. Tired of people telling me well you were in daipers whe he was in highschool. Im an adult now so i see nothing wrong with my fiance being 16 years older then me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

When you get a chance message me I wanna chat with you for a bit

[Alwayreckles93]

Why?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Message me

[Alwayreckles93]

Listen I had a rough divorce please I dont feel like giving out personal nusiness out there.

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's okay I totally understand

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Alwayreckles93]

Say thnks to the bot machine I didn't pick your answer as best.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Okay cool still love your questions

[inhua]

do they? perhaps maybe some younger men hate on older men and tell them to stick to women their own age though these younger men will one day realize that limiting one's dating pool isn't so great when they are on the receiving end

others just understand it's a journey and time is needed for establishment

[SnowedIn]

I think there's a fear of growing older. There's a no man's land between turning 30 and turning 40 where you no longer have the youth of 20s but haven't yet achieved the seasoning of 40s. It's very weird and feels weird. All the while your body is changing (and rarely for the better). Some of that for some men translates to immaturity and frustration and acting in shitty ways towards others or even jealousy.

All that said, this isn't every man or many but definitely some.

[Mansearching]

I've had disagreements with guys younger than me. Think ev1 has had that no matter what age they be. But being in competition, don't think i have.

[Alwayreckles93]

During the time when youwrre a kid parents actually knew how to parent their kids. Guys my age category what gappend a lot woman become single mothers and they become thier sons best friends instead of their parent I've seen that single mother who never get remarried raised their sonson theirbown and used the poor kid as their bff which is sick. Wan said uh guys, No guys isn't thebproble the thing is guts your age attend to be mature and make good boyfriends and husbads. You guys were raised well with both parents in their house whole that including step parents too.

[Exterminatore]

The males of your generation are not men that’s why.

[Alwayreckles93]

From what I've seen a lot of single moms had their sons astheir best friend instead of parenting. Back when you were a child parents knew howto parent a child.

[Exterminatore]

That is exactly right and probably 1/3rd of the reason our country is decaying.

[OlderAndWiser]

Some guys in their 30s are immature but certainly not all of them. Guys in their 40s are more established, successful, etc. and the younger guys can’t compete.

[NYCQuestions1976]

I'm currently 47 and I've never experienced this.

[Alwayreckles93]

You are a nice out going generous. Yeah onentime you td me you were like the cool cousin.

[AmeerX]

I think you need mature men because due to there age they are perceived as having greater authority.

Something like this happens all the time. The inexperienced guy says something in a proposal, no one gives it much value but same thing is said by a mature or experienced Executive people give him more attention.

[DarkWinterNights]

I’ll avoid taking that last part personally, but a 30 year old with a 40 year old isn’t a big deal. 10 year age gaps are fairly normal. Most people don’t start raising an eyebrow until it’s 15-20 years.

[RealMarek]

Not all men in their thirties are bad and I’m in my forties and have not noticed younger men “hating on” me. You just have to filter out the bad men and wait for the good men.

[LiamJHayden]

It is no one's business except yours and your SO's.

[Cheerfull009]

As for you both are happy with each other, don't care for others remarks