I have a friend, let’s call her Courtney, and she’s a white girl with a big butt. She’s a former soccer player and she goes to the gym 4x a week. Sometimes, when the girls in our friend group aren’t around/nearby, the guys talk about Courtney’s butt. They’ll say things like “look at Courtney, she’s got a world behind her”, “check out at Chun-Li over there”, and “for a white girl, she’s packin’”.
I hope that she never overhears these comments because I’m afraid of how she’s gonna react. If you have a big butt, would any of these comments bother you and if so, would you stop associating with these guys?
What Girls Said
Depends on who she is. I would laugh if I heard it once but if they repeatedly do it it’s annoying and uncomfortable.
I know one girl at work who someone told something like that to her and she turned him in right away.
I’ll just keep it to myself.
I almost told her once. It’s hard to gauge whether she’d laugh or be offended.
Your friends should find some respect and stop talking about her body like a bunch of perverts. I hope she does find out so she can lay everyone of those creeps out.
And yes, if I were here I would very quickly cut of all contact with every single one of you.
Understood. I’m not the one making the comments. At worst, I just laugh. I almost told her once, but decided against it. What makes it worse is that the other men in the friend group are married, I’m single.
Let me guess you'd hit it if she'd let you? You already imagined doing it from behind?
Haha I’m not going to lie. Yes, I would. Closest I got to that was almost kissing her but she refused because she said she wasn’t mentally ready for anything and didn’t want to lead me on. This was 4 months ago.
yeah im afraid this is how my male friends think.. anyways if you want something to happen you have to make her respect you. So start leaving her on read more often