I’ll be 26 never had a serious relationship as it’s hard find a guy that wants a girlfriend.
do girls have to go on few dates first then guy asks to be her boyfriend? Then later they have sex?
or is it new trend now to have sex first then guys in love after sex and asks to be your boyfriend?
I’m so un experienced that I don’t even know what’s the correct steps to do to have an offical boyfriend. Or is it all about sex first now and that’s how men make you an offical girlfriend?
Actually at 26, it all depends on what your idea of love is... but hooking up first can be risky.
Most guy like to connect talk a few times, then go out on a date... all within about a 2 two week time period, no more than 3. After 3 to 5 date then it's like your dating... and thats when you get into the sex territory. After about a month or two.
You make it like two week of talking, then 1 date a week for about 3 more weeks... so your 5 to 6 weeks into dating before sex at soonest. That's my recommendation.
Somw would say that's way too soon soon, like 3 to 6 months, some want it on the first date. But let be honest 6 weeks sound about perfect middle ground... any sooner or later then I get suspect.
Unless you are a virgin you should already be having sex with him before you ask him about being his girlfriend. If you want him to take you seriously you must also add value to his life outside of sex and make yourself indispensable.
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I think sexual compatibility is really important, but generally we talk about that before committing.
If you start with sex the relationship will never be serious.
I hope not.
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