Do you need have sex first to get a relationship or do you date guy first then he asks to be your official girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’ll be 26 never had a serious relationship as it’s hard find a guy that wants a girlfriend.

do girls have to go on few dates first then guy asks to be her boyfriend? Then later they have sex?

or is it new trend now to have sex first then guys in love after sex and asks to be your boyfriend?

I’m so un experienced that I don’t even know what’s the correct steps to do to have an offical boyfriend. Or is it all about sex first now and that’s how men make you an offical girlfriend?

[DaveJord]

Actually at 26, it all depends on what your idea of love is... but hooking up first can be risky.

Most guy like to connect talk a few times, then go out on a date... all within about a 2 two week time period, no more than 3. After 3 to 5 date then it's like your dating... and thats when you get into the sex territory. After about a month or two.

You make it like two week of talking, then 1 date a week for about 3 more weeks... so your 5 to 6 weeks into dating before sex at soonest. That's my recommendation.

Somw would say that's way too soon soon, like 3 to 6 months, some want it on the first date. But let be honest 6 weeks sound about perfect middle ground... any sooner or later then I get suspect.

[Asker]

But how do girls get to meet a bfs family? They do that first then sex? Guy asks to be her boyfriend then they kiss then they meet family?

[DaveJord]

At 20 six, nobody's asking to be your boyfriend, it's not high school anymore period at 20 six, you start dating somebody you're seeing him once or twice a week over the course of a couple weeks now you're dating period you talk about Hey, commitment, and if he's like, yeah. I'm merely to commit to relationship, then you're in a relationship period but if you just meet and them and having a sex with them, he's not gonna given it to him for free.

[Asker]

My ex boyfriend and I date long time but he refuse meet family no baby no pics together nothing

[Asker]

In highscool no one has asked to be my boyfriend lol a guy needs ask u that to know ur offically a couple

[Asker]

Besides no one knows I’m 26 I look like 18 lol

[Asker]

I can’t even get a date lol on a dating app one guy send dick pic then other guy say he want bake cookies with girl and first date watch sunset at beach but he right away talk of sex in my car. Then blocked me cuz I said I don’t do hookup

[DaveJord]

Welcome to dating, everyone has a story or two... women say they want confidence, honest and sincere men.

So you chat them for days and weeks and you ask them out they say they aren't comfortable meeting yet. Then they want to keep chatting and texting, like you d9dnt just blow me off. It's crazy that they just said no to meeting... and then want to be chat buddies.

[Asker]

I never had that happen to me. I just am seeing on the dating apps hundreds of men all want sex only

[Asker]

The more I swipe it’s thousands of men they all only want hookup no girlfriend only sex.

[Asker]

Yet I go to the stores and all women r with a man and baby and I’m alone?

[Asker]

I did see a few men on the dating app that want relationship and they r all white guys. Super tall white guys r the only ones that want a serious relationship

[Asker]

However those men don’t like me back. I do get Boys at my job to show interest in me but

[Asker]

The one I want is my crush and he hasn’t been to work these days. Hope he didn’t quit. He is a white guy but has brown hair. Maybe he a good boy 🙂

[DaveJord]

Well I am a white guy that is only 5'8 and I want a relationship... so there are some flaws in your thinking. I link up with woman all the time, that just want to chat or talk and when comes to making plans to set up a date the waffle and then want to keep chatting me.

So, it's a fucked-up world.

[DextroShade]

Unless you are a virgin you should already be having sex with him before you ask him about being his girlfriend. If you want him to take you seriously you must also add value to his life outside of sex and make yourself indispensable.

[Ironic_Method]

I think sexual compatibility is really important, but generally we talk about that before committing.

[shortster]

If you start with sex the relationship will never be serious.

[Anonymous]

I hope not.