What are some reasons guys ignore questions?

[Anonymous]

So I asked my boyfriend how is everything at work. No response. So then I followed it up with another question adding how is he and how is he doing? No response. He ignored both of my questions. Should I take it personal or is there something wrong with him or does he just want to be left alone? I want to know what the people here think before I directly ask him because he's at work rn.

Updates

8 mo

This happened before he went to work!

[Anonymous]

Could be a million reasons. I don't know what kind of relationship y'all have. With a lot of women less is more. A guy learns not to share excessive information with a woman. Because the only thing it earns him most the time is extra judgement. I don't know how much he trusts you. But even if he trusts you it might just be he doesn't want to burden you with negativity. We KNOW women and thier emotions. We don't want to feed negative ones. It'll only make things harder for him. He's a big boy he doesn't need help with his problems if he has anything. Your support is enough.

[Anonymous]

It depends. When you text him does he usually respond? Maybe he’s very busy. I work in medical so it’s always busy, but I do always respond between duties. Depends on what he does. Did you two have an argument before he left to work.

[Asker]

He responds but just not to my questions. And no we didn't have an argument

[Opinion Owner]

So whenever you ask him a question no matter what it is he doesn’t respond?

[Asker]

Yeah.. not all the time though, just the 2 questions I mentioned so far at least

[Nikki1989]

Most men are bad listeners. It is just the way they are wired.

[Asker]

I was taken aback and immediately thought I did something wrong but I know I shouldn't make it about me. Maybe you're right. Maybe he didn't hear me?

[summiter]

Ask him if he wants a handjob and I bet you will get an answer and a boner to go with it!

[Nifrayu]

He could be having a rough day and doesn't doesn't want to talk about it, but he could at least say that if it's the case.

[Asker]

Yeah.. he could have told me because now I'm over thinking a bunch of reasons of why that happened? Lol. But yeah he could be having a rough day? Should I cheer him up when he's back from work and pretend the question dodging never happened?

[Nifrayu]

I would try paying attention to his expressions and body language when he gets home. If he seems stressed I would just say something like. "Rough day?" And go from there.

[Asker]

Thank you. He came home in a good mood because he is going to get promoted. I guess I should leave what happened, in the past?

[bootyloveR88]

To prevent an extremely looooonnnnnnnngggg
Conversation that will probably lead to yawning and digging for the remote control.