So recently I asked my boyfriend that what he likes in me he answered he likes that I love him. I told him he never adores anything about me for eg. my personality. He told that he adore my boobs and lips. He even told that I have a black pus** to which I really felt bad. He said sorry but also said that he doesn't want to fight. Except that he didn't say anything about my personality.
I had told him this same thing 2 times before. He rarely compliments me except those 2 physical things. I had told him that I would be so happy if he compliments me without me expecting that. But why do I rarely get compliments from him? Does he not love me? I don't feel happy and enough in this relationship. This relationship feel like an "arranged marriage" kinda thing. What do I do? Is sth wrong with me?
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Well aside from sounding immature, men don’t really get compliments either. So kind of challenging to say these types of thing when you’ve never really heard them yourself as a man. But at the same time most men don’t look for compliments the way women tend to do. We just keep moving. It’s not really a natural thing to us. As a young man growing up your feelings are pretty much pushed to the side or ignored. Probably why a lot of men nowadays as they’re older don’t talk the way you want us to about our feelings. Because if he voices his feelings chances are he’s wrong according to women. So why speak? To a man such things are sort of cheesy. You’re expecting him to think like you when he doesn’t. Most men don’t think like women so women complain about it. I don’t say things to my girl like that. I show her by kissing her or hugging her or smacking her ass lol I may say something like how her cooking was awesome. But that’s one thing all men relate to, food.
Leave him. Doesn't sound like he is attracted to you
How often do you compliment him?
I keep complimenting him about his personality about his eyes his every feature but you know what he doesn't compliment me back 🥺