Will my boyfriend cheat me in future?

[Anonymous]

So we were talking about moving abroad for work and study. I asked my boyfriend that will he be able to stay without having sex if we ever get into LDR and he replied that depends. He didn't say a straight no or straight yes. The fact that raised this question on my mind is I had caught him flirting with girls behind my back just 4 months after relationship. But he also says that he will support me in my career. So what can be concluded from it? will he cheat on me eventually?

[madhatters4]

seems hard to know for sure.

but if he is unwilling to even say he has no intention of cheating and has been flirting with women while you're dating him, it does seem to suggest he is more likely to cheat

[Asker]

I agree he even told that he will leave me for other women if I can't satisfy him on bed so I got really insecure after his words though he says that he will never leave me. I'm so confused by his words.

[madhatters4]

you should've dumped him as soon as he said that. he's manipulative and coercive. that's really disgusting

[Asker]

I agree its evident that he will cheat me for sure , isn't it?

[madhatters4]

i don't know for sure but the fact that he would manipulate sexually like that is essentially a form of abuse. that in and of itself is reason to breakup with him

[DarkWinterNights]

The problem is LDR never really worked very well to begin with. Someone always ended up meeting someone else. Nowadays with a new person only being an app swipe away it’s almost a guarantee someone will cheat.

[Asker]

I agree 💯

[HelpfulWoman]

so he was flirting behind your back and you stayed? girl, are you dumb?

[LazerBean]

Absolutely. Time to dump

[boggboss]

If u have already seen him flirt with other women and he says depends then clearly he can't be trusted

[spartan55]

Or you will cheat on him.

[Anonymous]

Any man cheats, don't worry