Where did I go wrong do you think. Why would he randomly ghost?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I met a guy at a rave, he was nice we got along, he asked for my number and my Snapchat we left the rave early (me and my friend) and I realised I had missed calls from him

He asked like 3-4 hours later to stay at my place either him or his 3 friends, I drunk texted back yeah they can come.

When we got back they where waiting outside our place and came stayed the night he slept in a bed w me and my friend. his friends taken the sofa, things happened sexually (he went down on me before I stopped him as I was in pain) he also tried to penetrate me but i was in pain when he tried to have sex too. and in the morning he was texting me right away. apologising for not saying bye etc sending me selfies and I left him on seen, bc he sent me a blank snap of his face with no description and hours later he completely deleted me.

I texted him asking if there’s a particular reason he deleted me and he ignored me. why do u think he pursued me when he left to just ghost?

[crystalline0909]

He wanted sex. He didn't get it. So he is gone. It was all about sex.
In case he comes back in future just know that he deleted you to keep you guessing until you turn desperate so that when he comes back, you instantly give him sex. And he doesn't have to use his hand at night.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

This makes him sound like a total jerk, but it’s a explanation that makes sense

[crystalline0909]

Because he is. These kinds of men see girls as only good for cooking cleaning and sex. Otherwise a nice guy would like to know you first and won't vanish if there ain't any sex being offered.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well you met him at a rave and the first night you let him come home with you and sleep in the bed with you and your friend he thought he wad getting a threesome you sent him mixed signals now he probably thinks your playing games

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Me and my friend already knew how stupid and unsafe it was to let them stay, like we established our mistake the next morning and regretted it. And a threesome? That’s weird because my friend was sleeping the whole time but oh well clearly he has no respect so who cares I will forget him

[Bklynbadboy12]

Now you getting it! If he can't your a good girl then that's his loss. Don't sweat it if he did that he wasn't worth your time

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO. Are you okay? How are you holding up?

[Anonymous]

What a depressing story... fuck...

Stop living in a flophouse and sleeping with strangers you met a few hours before while inebriated in a bed you’re sharing with someone else. It’s gross, trashy, and clearly not safe.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It’s not a flophouse my friend is from out of town, and we decided it was easier for us to spend the night and share instead of her going all the way home. And honestly yeah, it was incredibly stupid for me to let them stay I know

[Still-alive]

My best guess is he may have found someone else and went with her instead. he still should tell you straight up he doesn't want to see you though instead of ghosting.

[motownplayer2000]

You have a lot of post of men ghosting you… there seems to be a common denominator here.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I agree but I feel like it’s been a combination of different reasons don’t you? Sometimes it’s them sometimes it’s me, sometimes it’s a compatibility issue

[motownplayer2000]

Maybe. But we are only getting one side of the story.. and that is yours. We don’t know what’s going with them. What they know about you that you won’t share on here. Why they didn’t like you enough to keep talking. So I can only speak from what you post. And what you post, it sounds like you have work to do on yourself to find someone

[Anonymous]

Did you get him off some other way? Like with those boobs?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Went to sleep tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Oh man! Not feeling up to fun at all, huh?

[Anonymous]

You instantly failed by relying on texting. That is not real communication.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

You’re right. Snapchat of all places, too.

[DarkWinterNights]

“I met a guy at a rave”


Case closed.

[azgınteke]

so sorry but she used you and threw you away