My boyfriend told me that I'm not that hot?

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I asked my boyfriend to tell me everything he thinks of me, good or bad and well... He said so much nice things but then ended it with "but you're not that hot".. I told him that stings and hurts but that I'm grateful he told me, however, now I feel seriously insecure and I feel like I'm not good enough.

I'd appreciate some opinions on how I should feel about what he has said to me, especially from some gals if that's ok.

Helpful answers only. Thanks.

I'll put some photos of me to show y'all what I look like.

My boyfriend told me that Im not that hot?

Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

Your boyfriend : "I will tell her, 'She is not that hot'. Because everyone (other men) Lie to her, to get in her pants, and that is giving her over-confidence. With overconfidence she will overvalue herself, fall trap to delusions and might break this beautiful relationship.. That we have build together with time. I Love her with all my heart and telling her 'She is not hot' will hurt me badly. But if it saves my relationship in long term I will do this painful thing. 😣🥲🥲

Le You (Girlfriend) : Goes on to Post pictures of herself on public site with thirty man and gain more validation and Overconfidence, and men all lying to her..

Reality is she is Good and Fit, but no man should be commenting and validating since she is committed to another man.. And she shouldn't post such pics and talk to her boyfriend that why he says so..

Resolve that issue, because it's possible she isn't overconfident but lacking in confidence but her boyfriend thinks entirely wrong..

I rest my case..

*Braced for Angry Feminists*

*I won't Entertain Any response*

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

Damn, this just sickens me to hear this. What kind of stupid ass says that to his girlfriend? Fuck that guy, please keep your dignity and give him the gate. Part of the reason he said it is because he thinks you won't do shit about it. Surprise him. I'm very sorry that happened to you.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

You are hot, girl!!!  You don’t need a boyfriend who tries to make you feel bad about yourself.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If your guy doesn't find you hot he's not the one, simple

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Hey girl, there is not a problem with how you look, and any guy would be lucky to have a girl like you, I think you are gorgeous, brown hair and brown eyes awe I'm sorry, but your boyfriend needs his eyes checked or get a mental health evaluation ( means he needs to be checked because he could be mentally ill. xD

ChiTown33 · Answer

Did you say or do something to instigate this comment? Maybe he means in comparison to your personality. Because there ain't nothing wrong with you physically. But even the hottest girl will look ugly after a while if she's got a 💩 personality.

Be honest with yourself. Does that sound like you? If so, fix it! If not, dump this guy. Life is hard enough without someone needlessly tearing you down.

dolemite58 · Answer

why are you still talking to this guy? every question i’ve seen from you has been about him in some way.

glennos89 · Answer

He is full of crap you look great nothing wrong with you at all. Maybe he should go see a optician and buy himselve some glasses 🤓

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think he needs glasses or a new prescription.

rigmarole · Answer

So you have a guy that likes you for many different reasons, is honest with you, and is actually still with you even though you're not hot but that's a problem for you?

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

You can do better. It wouldn't be very hard to find someone that thinks you're hot

exitseven · Answer

he doesn t know what he is talking about.

soe11 · Answer

To honest your so adorable sweet and sexy, trust me. Be positive and optimistic, eliminate negative and pessimistic thoughts. Do not look behind dear.

Staximus · Answer

Tell that guy to fuck off into the sunset 🌅

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Well... ermmm... : is HE ''hot''? That was a very unsensitive thing to say from his side. But then: Why did you ask?

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

You're cute. I'm not a fan of short hair, but you're not unattractive by any stretch.

noohair · Answer

Well I know one thing for sure. He is a moron! I think you are hot in a very cute and sexy way.

slatyb · Answer

Wow, is he stupid? You look fine. Dump him and find someone who thinks that you are hot.

Nikki1989 · Answer

He obviously has eyesight problems.

DextroShade · Answer

Ma'am, you are average and there is nothing wrong with that. Actually just by not being fat you are technically above average these days.

jahaims · Answer

I wouldn't describe you as hot. You are slightly above average but not hot in my opinion.

BLP11520 · Answer

I think you’re pretty, nice smile and your body is good.. He is wrong dear.

Billlewis · Answer

Get rid of him immediately.

Wise4myage · Answer

Wow is ever a moron.

jimmy2 · Answer

Baby he is blind that him to a eye doc

eagle1951 · Answer

wow you need a new boyfriend, your HOT!!!

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

You’re cute  but not THAT hot.

Tomisworthless · Answer

so you come seeking comfort from other men.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

You look hot

Anonymous · Answer

He is right

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