Is suggesting what you should wear already controlling? (Page 2)

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Is suggesting what you should wear already controlling?

Avicenna · Answer

I would say no. It's only a suggestion, after all.

Andres77 · Answer

He dresses himself. You dress yourself. Each should stay in their own lane. Once one feels like they can control the other it will never stop.

soe11 · Answer

Depending on your relationship and how he said you. May be suggesting May be contributing.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

You should only date someone that you’re accepting of who and how they are. You should never change them.

Yannae · Answer

It is and it isn't. I don't want my girlfriend to go out looking like a street worker. I think that's a reasonable request.

sparklycoconut · Answer

Yes that is definitely controlling. You should dress for yourself.

goaded · Answer

Yes, it sounds like it is. Expressing an opinion on what you're wearing isn't necessarily.

Anonymous · Answer

Suggestions on how to dress is not controlling but telling someone by demanding they dress a certain way is

Anonymous · Answer

I don't believe so. A suggestion is something you can't ignore. My husband often suggests outfits, I don't always listen

Unit1 · Answer

2 different things between SUGGESTING and TELLING YOU TO.

SotiCoto · Answer

"Suggesting"? No.  Insisting / demanding? Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe his fantasies about how hot you are are getting the best of him.. lol.. more... more please... lol... your so hot, thoughts... lol.. .

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Suggesting? No. Forcing me to wear shit that I hate? Fuck yes! I’d wear a skirt, wide-neck-opening shirt, kuffiya, and homemade jewellery.

Jonnywayne · Answer

As long as he doesn't force you. However, it should go without saying that the guy says what he likes and what he doesn't like.

DextroShade · Answer

You definitely have expectations of him in this relationship which is fine but when he has expectations of you it's controlling?

AmeerX · Answer

Giving a suggestion is not controlling. If you feel too uncomfortable then raise your concern but they should be socially acceptable

loveslongnails · Answer

That would depend entirely on how it's suggested, and what the relationship is all about.

Massageman · Answer

By 25-29, people should know how to dress without any help.

HighlyQuestionable · Answer

I'm really curious, what is "Mode sexy"?

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Suggestions are fine. Being moody for suggestions not taken is not.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Nope. Imposing what you should wear is controlling.

clubboss · Answer

It can not by controlling if it is a mere suggestion. I will definitely tell my girl what to wear be it controlling or not.

gta_fan · Answer

my ex was that way... she'd tell me what t-shirt she wanted me to wear for that day (she's also tell me what to do and where I can and can not go, also tell me who I can and can not talk to)

kerrieK001 · Answer

My boyfriend tells me what to wear all the time. It's actually easier.

standardguy · Answer

TellIing what he likes is never controlling. That is just talking about his tastes.

serious_miss419 · Answer

It’s not up to him. Wear what you feel is comfortable and not to please him

boobliker · Answer

no it not! we all like out SO s to look good

ÖyleBirGeçer · Answer

How dare he show masculine protective qualities towards you when you are in charge and lead the relationship.

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Yeah it is Its personal right and perso al freedom and he must respect it Put limits

Anonymous · Answer

Are you capable of having any conversation with any person without it turning into a bunch of drama about control?

HelpfulWoman · Answer

A suggestion isn't a red flag. An order is.

DreamLife7 · Answer

You're 25 years old asking this question? Are you slow?

Anonymous · Answer

Suggesting isn’t controlling.. you can say no.. and if you wear what your want anyway, you are the one controlling everything.

krin_m · Answer

Depends on the context usually but based on your update sure sounds like it.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

A suggestion is just that.

AtheArcher · Answer

In this case yes. If it’s a constant barrage of it, dump him.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, especially if it becomes an every day thing.

Anonymous · Answer

What’s wrong with him asking? Women dress their men all the time too. It’s not controlling.

Girlsontop · Answer

Suggesting only is not controlling

Bethany22 · Answer

Telling you to dress sexy is controlling

Apple1996 · Answer

Best to ignore those suggestions

In_Trance · Answer

You need to add some context to this

thegreenyogi · Answer

Yes in my personal opinion most definitely.

NateR05 · Answer

Just suggesting is not controlling

Alex-Snow · Answer

It is your body and your choice... not his

petera1987 · Answer

Yes, it is. Don't tolerate it.

globaldepression · Answer

Suggesting, no. Forcing, yes.

BigDog1989 · Answer

why dont you like it

Anonymous · Answer

No, it is love

scooogy · Answer

Clothes, period. 🤷‍♂️

MassiveDik · Answer

Yup, but woman cannot make choices on their own.

Twalli · Answer

Not if it's just a suggestion

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Sure is. You're an adult, not a kid.

justabuddy · Answer

A suggestion is one thing... a demand is another.

IveGotTheSixG · Answer

No...

robocop666 · Answer

Is he asking or telling?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Suggesting? No. Telling you? Yes.

SlayingBoooty69 · Answer

depends on if the relationship is okay with it

riverrat3 · Answer

Suggesting, probably not. Demanding yes

Night_Angel · Answer

Sure!

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