Do you have any tips to make friends with guys or find guys who won’t think you’re hitting on them or into them just because you’re a woman?

[Anonymous]

• I want men friends because I am very goofy and silly and many women are fake and too sensitive, some men are too sensitive these days too lol
• many times if I talk to a guy as friend he either starts telling me he thinks I like or am hitting on him, or it feels weird to me like the vibe is off like maybe he thinks I’m chasing him.
• I heard some guys who grew up around a lot of female family members are more understanding.

[RoseySarah]

So hard and I'm so the same!

Really it's hard making it friends and you need to find ones with sisters who have a good social life and read social cues.

Or they just think your flirting even when saying hi. Cause any women they see out of Thier mom's basement who even looks in Thier direction is flirting with them. So desperate

It has to happen over time had have to wear that in being nice mask till you both get to that stage of... Ok I'm just silly openly with you no flirting!

About one to 2 years or coworkers and people will think it's flirting so dumb. Last week with my besty coworker having a laugh and a new girl asks if I'm lesbian and a couple!

Really she insult teased me for making the lunchroom smell like fish and you think we are a couple?

It's so hard my sister has a voice changer for her games online it gets so funny 🤣. when the guys find out that amazing player is a girl

[Anonymous]

It is very rare when I have had any issues with that.

[strateguy632]

it depends which topics you speak about. if you don't plan to "hit on" then speak differently not like hitting on.

[Asker]

At times I hit on them but it’s totally joking and pushing their buttons it’s not legit. :/

[236color]

Guys don't necessarily thing you're hitting on them, more likely they HOPE you are.

[Asker]

Sometimes I am but it’s totally joking and not serious really. I don’t actually want any sex or whatever lol. But many times I’m also just joking and it’s not flirting in the least. So it’s a mixed bag here.

[236color]

We can't tell which is which.