If a guy keeps glancing at my lips in conversation and standing close to me is he trying to flirt and hint he’s into me?

[Anonymous]

Like I was explaining something and he was looking at my lips and back to my eyes and back to my lips and kept doing it that I was thinking is he even listening to me. Is this on purpose?

[magiusX26]

i was taught as a child to focus on the mouth of someone speaking as a way to pay attention and focus (active listening) though society tends towards wanting people to focus on the speaker's eyes. add in possible mental issues such as adhd or autism and that person being taught that older focus on lips (not many seem to teach this anymore) and if they are aware of societal expectatons of focusing on the eyes, you may come across people doing what you described as a sort of compromise of both focuses. so could likely mean nothing romantic. of course bringing up this behaviour to him without embarassing him (making him ashamed and/or defensive) mite get you better answers. though am curious if you have sone romantic liking if him as instead of just having your described conversation, you focused on his body language and reactions very intensely. if you do, then by all means openly express them (assuming you are not already in a relationship) instead of lookung for hidden or deeper meanings in his (maybe other people's too) actions, reactions, body language, and words. sorry but not everyone is indirect, especially we males.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Let me slip on my mind reading Koon skin cap and disregard that you should just ask this motherfucker if he is into you or not.

You probably have what's called on the streets... DSL's (dick sucking lips). Looking at that, probably made him want to face fuck you. I mean seriously, who wants to hear you talk? Some horn dog that wants to face fuck you badly maybe, right? I mean think about it... chicks with their tiddies hanging out complain about the same damn shit. Sorry if you thought it was a grander reason, it just is what it is.

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah. He’s doing it unconsciously though because he’s into you.

[caring__1]

This is a pattern I've noticed in myself. I'm more likely to focus on a person's mouth when I am listening to them than their eyes. I know the opposite is supposed to be true, according to society, that that is where my eyes tend to go. It doesn't mean anything, so don't try to read anything into it.

[Anonymous]

I will say this, that is on my mental checklist when l look for a woman that is interested in me. Google it. You will find several ways that women show interest in men.


My strategy is this, l use the same signals, but only pick the ones suited for a man, to flirt. Why not. They ought to be obvious to women.

[Holsen]

No, it may be because he just finds you attractive and furthermore a woman’s lips while talking paired with good looks can be so attractively hot and a big turn on so I guess that’s what the back and forth looks are about!!

[HaleyCatgirl]

To be honest probably not cuz I stare at people's lips also because I don't like looking people in the eyes but I understand how you could get that thought

[Benjiman19]

Maybe he wants to kiss your lips. For me, I try to look in the eyes of the one who's talking however, sometimes someone's lips can distract me from the movement of them so I look up and down and keep doing it

[RavVid]

Sorry to break this but I'd guess that he is imagining he is getting oral sex from you and you are looking up into his eyes. At least it means he thinks you have good lips for it. :)

[Naruse]

Depends on the person but yeah I doubt it's on purpose.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe he's a touch deaf and just trying to read your lips.

[goaded]

Possibly, or he's slightly autistic and the lips are the things that are moving.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah it means he finds you attractive and wants to kiss you..

[Btsuga3721]

What is he doing with others? I think that he wants to kiss you but just to be sure, try to watch him when he talks with other people. Maybe it's just a habit.

[magiusX26]

sound advice for this

[RedInnocent68]

For some it’s conscious, for some, subconscious. But yes, he’s into you and wants to kiss you

[Amuere]

He probably thinks you have sexy lips, and wants to bed you, probably an it tbh.

[DreamLife7]

No, if he liked you he would've told you. He's just trying to understand what you're saying

[purplepoppy]

You've got spinach between your teeth

[overthinkergirl]

he's flirting ig

[JacobJordan]

It's a sign he wants to kiss you

[Tharithi]

Maybe u had something stuck in your teeth

[Radiate143]

Yes, sexual interest.

[collie22]

Maybe he's simply reading our lips

[DB1973]

He might be deaf in one ear and reads lips.

[fuddly]

Anyway waxing would sort that out in 10 minutes

[Jupiter1]

He wants to kiss you 😘

[Christina1227]

That or he wants to kiss you 💋

[bededazzle]

yeah

[bededazzle]

ok maybe not on purpose. could be subconscious. but i mean, lips are for kissing

[PreciousJewel]

He wants to kiss you