Guys, when you're getting over a woman, what you make you miss her more?

[Anonymous]

What makes you miss/want her more, seeing happy posts and stories of her (seeming like she moved on) or seeing posts/stories that may indicate she misses you and didn't move on (lile sharing sad posts, not too many of them)? Which would make you more prone to message her of other circumstances were right? Would the "misses you" one look desperate in your eyes?

Ofc, I'm talking only about situations where the dynamic between you was healthy, and you're still considering being with her.

Happy posts (moved on)

Misses you (didn't move on)

[BourbonAndBacon]

The missing you posts look sad and pathetic to me. The happy posts usually seem insincere because it looks like they are trying too hard. Complete silence would make me wonder how she's doing. However, when it's over I delete them and don't check up for the sake of my own sanity.

[Anonymous]

Definitely missing me.

[Asker]

What would constitute "missing me" posts for you? Genral (or sad) romantic posts/quotes, direct posts when she writes sth like "I miss you" alluding to romance (or not alluding to anything specific, thus leaving place for interpreation) or sth else?

[Opinion Owner]

Romantic posts.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[SotiCoto]

When one is getting over a woman, one is generally not still considering being with her... so unless there is something else you're not really clarifying, the situation you're suggesting doesn't make sense.