We've had 10 dates or so been to quite a few places. We're getting on really well.
Over the last few occasions he's been coming to my home and although we went out for drinks the first time he stayed over I suggested we stay in.
Anyways he seems to want to meet in the evening say after 8pm, he will also want to sleep in until quite late and then gets ready only to then go home.
He requested that I cook him a meal despite the last time he said he would cook, he turned up 2 hours late he initially said due to train issues but then it turns out that he went to visit a friend before he claims who has mental health issues.
And was claiming to have fbi bugs in his stereo.
Anyways he's not a planner (he claims) and prefers being spontaneous, this is an issue for us. Because although im not rigid I like to have plans, so far we've compromised on arranging when we'd meet again. Then wing it on the day.
It's not that I can't cook a meal or do something nice, but if we're constantly going to be winging it, what preparing am I going to be doing?
I'm not a domestic woman, I'm a working woman who has to have a routine to keep my working week and home running smoothly. My weekends I'm happy to wing or plan because it's my time, but I also don't want to end up either not doing something or becoming a house maid...
Im sure many of you will say I'm being a cow for saying this but there has to be give and take.
If I'm cooking at least respect my time... When we went out to eat I didn't order the most expensive meal and I would help to pay and buy rounds of drinks for us both.
Because I believe in being fair.
Over the last few occasions he's been coming to my home and although we went out for drinks the first time he stayed over I suggested we stay in.
Anyways he seems to want to meet in the evening say after 8pm, he will also want to sleep in until quite late and then gets ready only to then go home.
He requested that I cook him a meal despite the last time he said he would cook, he turned up 2 hours late he initially said due to train issues but then it turns out that he went to visit a friend before he claims who has mental health issues.
And was claiming to have fbi bugs in his stereo.
Anyways he's not a planner (he claims) and prefers being spontaneous, this is an issue for us. Because although im not rigid I like to have plans, so far we've compromised on arranging when we'd meet again. Then wing it on the day.
It's not that I can't cook a meal or do something nice, but if we're constantly going to be winging it, what preparing am I going to be doing?
I'm not a domestic woman, I'm a working woman who has to have a routine to keep my working week and home running smoothly. My weekends I'm happy to wing or plan because it's my time, but I also don't want to end up either not doing something or becoming a house maid...
Im sure many of you will say I'm being a cow for saying this but there has to be give and take.
If I'm cooking at least respect my time... When we went out to eat I didn't order the most expensive meal and I would help to pay and buy rounds of drinks for us both.
Because I believe in being fair.
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