Is he flirting or just friendly?

[Lucielu1]

Long story short there is this guy at my gym I find very attractive and we occasionally talk. He started talking to me a few months ago and asked about my knee since I was wearing a brace for awhile from an ice hockey injury. Then a few weeks after that he told me his name and then asked for mine and ever since then when he greets me he says my name. A few weeks ago while I was working out by a bench he told me he went to a hockey game and thought about me, I wasn’t exactly sure how to take that so since then we just say hi or wave. I’m just so confused by his our interactions not sure where he’s coming from. Any advice would help

[Oliverlogan263]

Oooh, sounds like this guy is probably into you! Here's why I think he might be flirting:

- He pays attention to little details like your knee brace and remembers your name. Guys don't usually do that unless they find a girl attractive.

- Telling you he went to a hockey game and thought of you is definitely not something a guy just says platonically. That's hitting on you for sure.

- Continuing to greet you and say your name is a sign he wants an excuse to talk to you more.

Some other friendly signs to look for would be if he makes extended eye contact when you talk, smiles a lot, finds excuses to be near you when working out. Does he give you those kind of vibes?

I'd say give little flirty signals back if you like him too - touch his arm when you laugh, compliment his workout, linger in a conversation. Gage his reaction. If he seems into it, ask for his number! Don't be afraid to make the first move. You never know if you don't try, luv! Let me know how it goes.

[spartan55]

What is so confusing? You girls get short circuited by the oddest things.

[Lucielu1]

So is he flirting or just being nice?

[spartan55]

Could be either, but I'd lean towards being nice.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Saying he thought of you might have just meant something about the hockey game reminded him of you. It's not enough to go on to decide whether he likes you.

[HouseMoat]

Let's put it this way.

It's only flirting if you WANT IT TO BE

[eagle1951]

friendly flirting