I am a kind, passionate but I am feisty and testy when I need to be. I don’t put up with bitchiness, BS or nonsense. One guy approached me and I was in a hurry and I got a little impatient. He was like, “Oooh feisty Latina. I love it.”
Not every Latina is the same. I am a proud Latina but come in now. Anyways my friend complains guys lose interest in her because she’s “too nice” and too agreeable. She said guys find me interesting because I’m…. less nice and feisty..
Guys, Why do most guys like women that are feisty and less nice?
What Guys Said
Because it’s purely sexual. It turns them on. They think she has to be hot in bed, a freak, she’s going to talk dirty along w a number of other things. But it’s usually sexual. They may like it for a while but if she’s always like that eventually they’ll get tired of it. Their mind is in the bedroom, not in public. Like what if she flips out on him at a restaurant, the smell, etc, etc. The same w redheads. A lot of men usually associate feisty, fiery, fire w Latinas and red heads. Again purely sexual. Doesn’t always mean they want a real relationship w you. They may just want to fuck. I knew a girl once, maybe late 30s, psychologist, a redhead. She got mad, feisty quick as you would say. I always wondered what it would be like having sex w her. Like would it be this angry hate fuck type of sex. Would she get crazy in bed? But as far as dating her. No way she was off her rocker.
My grandma was called feisty but she was also the type of person who if you showed love to her, she would love you back more. If you made her mad, look out. She was probably better described as passionate than feisty and the Latinas I know remind me a lot of my grandma
Some men like fiestiness in a woman and most men expect it from Latinas so your behavior is normal 😂
Okay but not every Latina is feisty. That’s a dumb stereotype lol.
Most are tho, even the shy ones, you get to know each other and I'm like 87% sure they are going to be fiesty in their own way as well.
True. My friend said guys get turned off by her because she’s too nice and agreeable. She complains she never gets second dates. I told her because guys don’t want “nice women”, they want a woman that’s real and can push back and be less nice, not a jerk or anything.
Well I surely don't agree you should say that to her, there's men that like nice women and if she's a nice woman i don't think she should change, I'm sure when you get to know her, she will have a fiesty attitude in her too when provoked, telling her that is the equivalent of a friend telling a gentleman guy, women don't want gentlemen guys, then the women that do have all the gentlemen turn to baboons lol
You should tell her there's guys out there that will like her for who she is, but I don't hold it against You, That's just your fiestiness talking 😂