Does being a gentleman mean a guy is cultured in any way and what does being cultured mean?

[linka_pat307]

[BarryLiverstone]

Cultured can be a part but not needed to be a gentleman. To me a gentleman is what my grandfather was. He made it a priority to make everyone around him feel comfortable and welcome, so they belonged.


I would watch him at family gatherings talk to a new person or guest for 20 mins. Genuinely welcoming them to the event and wanting to connect with them. He used manners, was generous, and used humor so everyone laughed and enjoyed their time.


Now the cultured part you asked about may be about how he told a story or dressed

[RedInnocent68]

Being cultured and a gentleman are distinct and separate, although they have a high proportion of overlap. Being cultured is about curiosity, education, experience, interests, and travel. Being a gentleman is about consideration, kindness, and manners, especially towards girls.

[OlderAndWiser]

Being cultured means that a man has some awareness of music, art, theatre, literature, as well as being versed in current world events, and that a man has the motivation to see and understand the world that exists beyond his immediate environ.

Being a gentleman means that a man understands and practices the basic rules of social etiquette, particularly with respect to the interactions between men and women.

A man may be a gentleman without being cultured, and a cultured man may not be a gentleman, but there is a positive correlation between the two attributes.

[Anonymous]

What? Being cultured means you know anime and hentia basically porn! Very well!

Being a gentleman means you are nice with women and open doors and help us with our chairs!

Really missing this from the south! But being cultured is the opposite! Means they never interact with us because they are locked in Thier rooms drooling over fake women!

[linka_pat307]

Your opinions made my mind go numb

[Opinion Owner]

Just like yours does!
Google cultured anime

[linka_pat307]

You see that is the difference, we have literary, dictionary and common understanding of words and I want to hear your own definition of being cultured like what you think and understand of the word

[Opinion Owner]

It got taken by the internet and got changed like a lot of things do in the recent years.
Go to any college or highschool and they will use the internets definition!

[linka_pat307]

They never and this side we use the British curriculum

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry Indian here
If it's not on the internet it does not exist. Our lives are our phones

[linka_pat307]

It does exist but placing your life on the internet for every thing ain't good

[Opinion Owner]

Tell that to TikTok 😂

[linka_pat307]

What has tik took have to do with this?

[Opinion Owner]

If you say that on open modern places they will roast you alive for it!

[BarryLiverstone]

Linda is correct. Cultured isn’t about the internet. It’s a refined person of character

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone only to old people

[BarryLiverstone]

I checked on the internet:’

“adjective. If you describe someone as cultured, you mean that they have good manners, are well educated, and know a lot about the arts. He is a cultured man with a wide circle of friends. Synonyms: refined, advanced, polished, intellectual “

[linka_pat307]

You mean being cultured is for old people?

[ohsheeT]

To me cultured means having knowledge being polite courteous well-mannered.

I think a lot of men are culture but in many different ways LOL

[NathanDavis]

many of these are just pretentious AF...

[exitseven]

Being a gentleman has more. To do with honor and civility that it does with being cultured.

[msc545]

Educated, intelligent, and interested in the arts a well as science, and well-mannered and well-spoken.

[Anonymous]

No. In the modern sense being a gentlemen is just adherence to somewhat of a chivalric code.

[riverrat3]

I would think it means well mannered

[eagle1951]

means they were bought up right.