Boyfriend wants space now, but we’re moving in together this year. How will that work?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

He is already talking about wanting space, and you are moving in together?

This might not end well.

[BarryLiverstone]

In a healthy relationship even if you live together you still need a balance of time together and apart. So work it out with him when you can be away and when to reconnect

[slatyb]

It probably won't. Why does he want space?

[Asker]

I have been overstaying but he also started school.
Also every time I have a problem with him about stuff of the past he kinda gets upset and asks for space because he doesn’t know what to do.

[Asker]

He’s been confusing asking for space and when I give it he calls me back to stay over and I always communicate if it’s fine if I stay or not

[slatyb]

"Also every time I have a problem with him about stuff of the past"

Why do you have a problem about "stuff of the past?"

[Asker]

He was shady in the beginning of our relationship. we weren’t boyfriend and girlfriend but it was heading towards that and I lost some trust in the relationship but was able to move forward. The last problem we had which is what I was upset about and finally confronted it was because he was making comments about a coworker and that her ass was big to his friends