Ok, this is going to sound harsh at first, but lets dive into psychology.
Girls are more interested in people than in things. We see this trend all the way back with 1 year olds. Girl babies will look longer at faces, Boy babies will look longer at things.
Because of this, when guys take pictures, they tend to take a picture of the cool car. When girls take pictures, they tend to take a selfie with the car. I'm not saying guys don't take selfies, but they don't take NEARLY as many as us girls do.
That said, when he's asking for a picture of you he isn't as interested in seeing your face. Not because he sees you as an object or anything, but because he doesn't necessarily want to see faces all the time like us ladies do. Its why he takes pictures of cars that DON'T have his face in them.
No, when he's asking for a picture of you, its pulling on something very different. He is asking for an intimate connection. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. Its why we absolutely love it when a guy we like cuddles with us. Because it triggers in us a deep, primal feeling that we're in that relationship. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Its why men become much more excited by getting nudes than we get from random dick-pics. The nude is expressing to him "Yes, I like you this much. Just like you're giving me your time and resources and making a relationship with me, I'm giving you my body." That sounds crass because our society bashes on men's primal drives while propping up as "moral" women's primal drives. But its the exact same thing. He just wants to feel like you think about him and care about him. And that's one of the ways you can do it (if you're already to that point in the relationship.)
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Because he's seen all of you, is totally familiar to you, so he doesn't really need more photos, he's got you irl.
Guys love sex. Especially in their twenties, their sex drive is really high. They want that benefit of having a girlfriend or partner. They can all find a bounty of nudes online, but they don't want that when they have a girlfriend who is willing to share her most intimate things with only him.
And you are posting your 'normal' selfies online, for all the world to see, potentially. But he wants what is only his, and that is your body. (Your body, with your face, showing how you feel when you are taking a sexy photo only for him.)
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If he thinks you are pretty it just helps him get off when he can see your face too. Should you send it, maybe not.
He might be showing them to his buddies, or even posting them online. Be careful!
Why would he want a normal selfie if you're willing to give him the special picture. Does he ever send any of the pictures of his self to you?
He just want u for sex
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